AGREE. Whoever made this is oblivious of how child support works.
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· 8 years ago
That is so true I mean it's not like there's countless of ways for women to omit out of becoming a parent with not form of punishment to themselves. And let's not forget that men can just walk away whenever. It's not like they have to pay child support even when they never wanted a kid and were tricked into getting the girl pregnant.
@korozco I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic, but if you don't want kids don't have sex. Now I'm not saying don't have sex unless you're doing for kids, I'm saying kids are a very real consequence of sex and you have to weigh out if it is worth it. I can only think of two ways a man could be "tricked" into having a kid: he is raped or someone purposely damaged his condom. And I think those scenarios are far outweighed by irresponsible sexual encounters.
That said, women do have more rights when I comes to children, and that doesn't seem quite balanced.
Yeah it's prison, when a man can't pay child support they send him to prison.
I don't understand politics and laws but that's what I know of it, correct me if I'm wrong
You're wrong. As long as you 1) communicate and 2) cooperate with your partner and the authorities, you will not be imprisoned. Unless they prove that you could support, but don't do it because of spite or ignorance.
Yeah i don't know why anyone would go to prison unless they were deliberately harming or neglecting the child.. I'm calling bullshit man!
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· 8 years ago
Prison in some cases but it's mainly forcefully withholding a percentage of the father's salary to give to the mother. Or if the father doesn't have a job they suspend his license. Or the mother can request the court to hold the father in contempt and this is the situation where the father can end up in prison.
Men forget that in a number of states that if they have a change in income where they cannot reasonably pay the amount of support they have been previously paying before, they need to contact the child support department and possibly a judge. If you reasonably can show that your change in income is not likely to go back to what you had before, then you can pay a decreased amount. My ex had to go through with that because he had issues paying support for his son with a job that had significantly decreased in pay (oilfield). It happens.
Because of downvote I should feel the need to say that this is not my child I was talking about. I was dating a man with a child from a previous relationship, and that bitch was freaking crazy. This is what I hate. When women have the power, they use it for evil. Be a good person and try to allow a relationship between father and child. Don't hold support over their head, don't be bitter. Be a decent, human being. I just don't understand people. It's not that hard.
I refuse to respect anyone because of gender. If you want my respect, you goddamn well better earn it by being a good person. Being born a certain gender doesnt make respect your birthright.
We do. At least, most of us do. Just because some men are cunts, does not mean that ALL men are cunts. Men are not the problem, men these days will treat their girl with love. If you think that all men are cunts YOU are the problem.
Britishclusterfuck is blunt but right. It is honestly the most ridiculous thing when a movement that rightly wants equality after centuries of oppression decides they want to turn the tide and start treating men like monsters. You are the reason some women find if hard to identify as feminists. Fuck off
That said, women do have more rights when I comes to children, and that doesn't seem quite balanced.
I don't understand politics and laws but that's what I know of it, correct me if I'm wrong
Is for society to see men as Human beings. And then redistribute the rights and benefits accordingly ...
-men.
Britishclusterfuck