No socially people shame them by calling them sluts. So it's finally came that we have a name for men, and that is fuckboy. This is just the new "slut shame" but for men in my opinion.
Oh my god I had this problem! There's this guy, he sat by me in a few classes, and be would hardcore flirt with me, and I totally ignored it because 1 he had a girlfriend, & 2 he is a well known Fuckboy. We were friends, though, I told him about the shitty boyfriend I had at the time, and how I couldn't break up with him because we had common friends and it would be messy as fuck, and he told me "Dump the douchebag as soon as you can. You deserve a guy who treats you like the queen you are." And then, he kept fucking flirting. And I guess I caught feeling then. He still goes through girlfriend really fast. And he flirts with everyone, I know I'm not special. But for some MOTHERFUCKING REASON I HAVE THE BIGGEST CRUSH ON HIM AND I DONT KNOW WHY AND I WANT IT TO STOP!
Maybe you like the way his flirting makes you feel, and presents an image of you that you don't think exists, but wish existed. That poseur is flirting with you because he feels inferior unless he is winning at Girls. He is very, very broken, and if you give in to his flirting, you will end up broken as well.
Wait. A truly exceptional young man will come around who feels those things for you, not because it makes him feel better to flirt with you, but because he truly sees those things in you and would dance naked on a table in a biker bar just to carry your purse. That's when you know you have a keeper. If this guy wouldn't do that, then you know he ain't The One.
I hate everything. Even when they aren't "fuckboys" they still tear your heart out. Never good enough. Spend everyday trying. Fuck it. I'm said fuck girl now
I think a lot of guys feel that way, too (about girls - or guys). Physical connection is easy; emotional, lasting connection is harder. But always worth the effort.
I didn't realise it was an insult. I thought its like a fuckbuddy.
Wait. A truly exceptional young man will come around who feels those things for you, not because it makes him feel better to flirt with you, but because he truly sees those things in you and would dance naked on a table in a biker bar just to carry your purse. That's when you know you have a keeper. If this guy wouldn't do that, then you know he ain't The One.