Then go with the logical thinking to ease some of the feels. There is a large percentage of miscarriages, it's not a rare occurrence. Most of these happen before the woman knows she's pregnant. For the later term miscarriages, and for stillbirths, yes it is very sad, for those who are trying to conceive and lose the pregnancy, again sad, but it's not a thing talked about often so many don't realize just how common it is.
I found out in a shitty Olive Garden last weekend that my favorite cousin (practically my older sister) actually had a twin brother that died at 10 weeks. I was in total shock. I excused myself to the restroom and sobbed for a good ten minutes.
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