Sure, take it to the grave, but don't feel guilty over it.
He already had a drug and alcohol problem. I'm going to go out on a limb and say that the brother's relationship with the ex wasn't exactly a healthy one, nor was the relationship with the family.
One late night rebuttal from the boyfriend isn't what triggered it, there were already some serious underlying issues present here.
Place the blame on others .. are you a Democrat
(nor was the relationship with the family.your words)
Yeah because a duche bag wouldn't let him talk to his sister..
No. I am not a Democrat, nor am I a Republican. I am staunchly independent because I like to think for myself and make up my own mind.
I'm also not shifting blame either. I am placing it squarely right where it belongs. Right on the mentally unstable shoulders of a drug and alcohol addicted person.
Don't get me wrong, it's still tragic. But this individual was an adult that made poor life decisions.
So a conversation with a sibling won't change anything.. get tha fuck out of here with your bullshit.. Independent..lmao! More like a asshole who thinks he's Einstein
The fact that you hid it means you feel guilty like you've done something wrong. I dont agree with your apathy but thats not the only factor that might have led the man into depression. However your decision to hide it is most troubling. If you claim you didn't do anything wrong, why not tell them? In contrast, if you did something wrong then your act of hiding it doesn't make it any better. Two wrongs don't make a right you know.
Rationally, he couldn't have known better.
Rationality goes out the window when grief enters the equation.
In order to protect the relationships he has, he needs to keep his mistake hidden.
That's not something you share with anyone.
Sure, take it to the grave, but don't feel guilty over it.
He already had a drug and alcohol problem. I'm going to go out on a limb and say that the brother's relationship with the ex wasn't exactly a healthy one, nor was the relationship with the family.
One late night rebuttal from the boyfriend isn't what triggered it, there were already some serious underlying issues present here.
(nor was the relationship with the family.your words)
Yeah because a duche bag wouldn't let him talk to his sister..
I'm also not shifting blame either. I am placing it squarely right where it belongs. Right on the mentally unstable shoulders of a drug and alcohol addicted person.
Don't get me wrong, it's still tragic. But this individual was an adult that made poor life decisions.
Rationality goes out the window when grief enters the equation.
In order to protect the relationships he has, he needs to keep his mistake hidden.
If it's gonna make someone feel horrible, keep it to yourself.
Just sayin'
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