That would be amazing. I'll admit that I don't really discuss some of what makes me upset with SOs, but that is usually because experiments are not working out how they should. Also, this post applies to kids talking to their parents, too.
Maybe once you realize that she probably doesnt want you to 'fix' it and that she really just wants you to understand you'll start having a successful relationship. Grat relationships happen when both people do everything they can to make the other one happy, not when the other person "finally understands what they're doing wrong". :/
You have to build a successful relationship from something, and understanding requires some kind of communication. You can't expect people to immediately have a successful relationship out of nothing. One person may think they are doing everything they can to make the other happy, yet overlook something; likewise, they could be doing something that doesn't really make the other happy. As the post is stating, it is much more likely to help build a successful relationship with communication, rather than with obfuscation.
First, i never suggested or implied that relationships dont need communication. The post does indeed suggest that an understanding of the other person is helpful, and i'm not challanging that at all. I'm simply stating that pointing out all the things your SO is doing wrong is'nt going to end well. This video articulates it better than i ever could. Hint: if you watch this and think it supports your belief, watch it again with your SO.
https://youtu.be/-4EDhdAHrOg
https://youtu.be/-4EDhdAHrOg