you have to have the perfect card

And we should try often. Have flowers waiting for her on the kitchen table on some random Tuesday in February, or whenever! And mix it up a bit! You can do the whole "roses petals leading into the bedroom/bath tub" scenario, etc, etc. Never stop dating your wife. Cherish her always. And don't forget the back rubs...

My dad always makes some silly rhyming poem card for my mom, their anniversary is Feb. 13th so it fits, and she loves it.

That's lovely. :) Make he continue to do that, and more.