The first few weeks of the relationship
Don't worry, that too shall pass
Note: after that time, you don't think about the person every single minute anymore. But it's not that your feeling is fading, your mind simply has had the time it needed to adjust
But I get it. From a male perspective, I understand why it happens. Sometimes they are a flake and they just have something else going on... whatever that may be.
Other possible circumstances when I think about it, it makes me sad. Sad to contemplate what societal pressures and poor interactions that preceded you led her to the decision that this is the course of action she's choosing.
Then you have to consiter, "Was I one of those? Am I another drop in the bucket of creeps?"
Flake, pressured reaction or creep, you'll never know.
I understand it, but it still hurts.
Don't worry, that too shall pass
Note: after that time, you don't think about the person every single minute anymore. But it's not that your feeling is fading, your mind simply has had the time it needed to adjust
But I get it. From a male perspective, I understand why it happens. Sometimes they are a flake and they just have something else going on... whatever that may be.
Other possible circumstances when I think about it, it makes me sad. Sad to contemplate what societal pressures and poor interactions that preceded you led her to the decision that this is the course of action she's choosing.
Then you have to consiter, "Was I one of those? Am I another drop in the bucket of creeps?"
Flake, pressured reaction or creep, you'll never know.
I understand it, but it still hurts.
As long as I don't slack off, I should have two novels and a screenplay ready for submission by the end of the year.