I had a friend who helped me at first by getting me out of my shell then he overstepped some boundaries and would get pissy if I didn't have the energy to go out with him every weekend
Luckily my boyfriend is an extrovert and understands perfectly :) except for once but that's a different story
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· 7 years ago
The opposite for me.
Me: HEY GUYS
Introverts: no
Me: at least say hi
Int: no
M:fine fine let me start over. yes. hi. I am quiet and stuffs.
Int: stop faking
M: WELL WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO
It's so, so different from situation to situation, depending on who you are and who you're talking to. If I may give some advice, though - most introverts will enjoy conversations more if it's about a topic that can be explored more deeply through dialogue. Talking about who did what on the weekend and other fairly mundane stuff will bore most introverts quickly. I'm very grateful for my extraverted friends - I need their help to get out of my head sometimes! - and I can't imagine that many introverts have or want NO extraverted friends.
Me: HEY GUYS
Introverts: no
Me: at least say hi
Int: no
M:fine fine let me start over. yes. hi. I am quiet and stuffs.
Int: stop faking
M: WELL WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO
Ouch