Dirty thangs

Hatred usually shows that you regret the whole relationship

It's your fault too that you got in the relationship in the first place

Not always. You get into a relationship thinking the other person is the right one for you but they change along the way, or they didn't show you their true selves from the beginning.

Exactly. You learn more and more about the other person, and yourself, as the relationship progresses. And the end result isn't always a fairytale ending.

Yes
But no need to hate the person
Never let the world bitterness ruin your sweet, loving self

No need to hate the person.. But if that person did something to hurt you so badly, it is only natural you will hate that person, and until you find the strength in yourself to go back to how you were before and love life again and don't 'let the world bitterness ruin your sweet, loving self', you will resent them for doing you so wrong and taking that part of your joy in life away.

Really there are ,all of your comments would leave one to believe you are still hung up. Oh the hipicrocy is thick

Nah. I'm happily engaged but trying to explain why someone with a bad breakup may still hate/dislike the ex.. human nature