Or you could just tell her and save your time and energy if she doesn't reciprocate rather than working yourself up to feel you're obligated to her affection
I like this post and also I really appreciate the potatoe at the end of longer posts and it honestly makes my day when the potato is related to the post. Sorry if this comment is a little gushy but I just wanted to put that out there *potato*
This is shitty advice. Girls don't owe anybody sex or affection. Just tell her straight out, and if she rejects you, move on. Do not try to charm your way into changing her mind. She isn't obligated to love you because you're being nice and flirting with her. Stop whining about the 'friendzone' and just save your time and find another girl.
Why are people being so rude about this post? I don't think it's saying that if you do this the girl will automatically like you back. I took as actually warming someone up to the idea of liking you before just dropping it on them. If someone told me they loved me and I didn't feel the same I'd feel really uncomfortable and awkward and of course I'd tell them I didn't feel the same. But if they gave me a chance to see them in that way I'd probably be more like to feel the same way or be more open to the possibility of developing those feelings once I knew how they felt.
No, you don't love her. You just think you do.
You DO like her and that perfectly fine to say so just tell her.
Frankly, following this advice is even creepier than the creep factor it's "trying" to help you avoid.
All it does is enable yourself to continue down an emotional path that may very well be a dead end, which if it is, will be all the more emotionally destructive.
This whole thing is weird and messed up and probably the worst advice Ive seen in a long time. Firstly, i highly doubt its love that you're feeling, thats something that builds after youre actually in a relationship. So anyone just telling someone that they love them is just plain creepy. Secondly, if you have feelings for someone, tell them as soon as possible instead of being a cuntflap pretending to be their friend when you actually have ulterior motives. Unless its a total stranger, then you'd need to get to know them first. I told my girlfriend that I was attracted to her 2 weeks into meeting her. We only started dating 3 months later, because we needed to see if we were compatible first. The whole shit about the waiting game and sexual tension is crap because you'll end up with one of those fedora tipping nice guys who whine about being friend zoned.
You DO like her and that perfectly fine to say so just tell her.
Frankly, following this advice is even creepier than the creep factor it's "trying" to help you avoid.
All it does is enable yourself to continue down an emotional path that may very well be a dead end, which if it is, will be all the more emotionally destructive.