I tell my husband guess what I am only saying I do once in my life if you want a divorce it will have to be court ordered and I am going to plead to the judge. "O please your honor I know we still love each other we just need counseling. I know we can get better." Because I won't willingly sign divorce papers. Only way is if he hits me or our kid. But if he does he better be prepared because I have 5 brothers and they all know I hit back and I use weapons.
But I know my husband is not the kind to hit a girl. So he is stuck with me till death do us part. If he wants I will leave him be in heaven but here on earth his ass belongs to me. Lmao
Hay I told him this all before he asked me to marry him and he agreed he never wants to get a divorce either. He comes from a family where the second they fight the marrige is over. He wanted someone who when the going got tough they will be there to insist on working it out.
As for me I come from a family who did just that my Dad never slept on the couch because of a fight. My mom never yelled demanding a divorce. They would go to their room yell alot work it out till they figured it out. And that is how we settle things yell it out and get things figured out.
It also helps I was never a person to hold a grudge over the small things. Like when my hubby ate my ice cream I was saving or when he was being an ass or when he makes a mess of the house and leaves it for me to clean. I may bitch that day about it. But next moring clean slate.
But I know my husband is not the kind to hit a girl. So he is stuck with me till death do us part. If he wants I will leave him be in heaven but here on earth his ass belongs to me. Lmao
As for me I come from a family who did just that my Dad never slept on the couch because of a fight. My mom never yelled demanding a divorce. They would go to their room yell alot work it out till they figured it out. And that is how we settle things yell it out and get things figured out.
It also helps I was never a person to hold a grudge over the small things. Like when my hubby ate my ice cream I was saving or when he was being an ass or when he makes a mess of the house and leaves it for me to clean. I may bitch that day about it. But next moring clean slate.