Well for clarification, what did you intend with confident? I took it as being assertive.
In this case im not entirely sure assertive is quite the right thing to do/be.
Them again, remember that I have had some shit experiences in the past with a lack of reciprocated interest.
I didn't really mean it as being assertive, I meant it more as being more comfortable when showering with your girlfriend, don't just stay in the corner being cold
"Mmmm, calm down there big boy, be patient."
"Nooo, I don't want to slip."
"Fuck you, what are you doing in here?"
Ahhh... the memories.
In this case im not entirely sure assertive is quite the right thing to do/be.
Them again, remember that I have had some shit experiences in the past with a lack of reciprocated interest.