I want to rant about this shitty thing someone did to me, so maybe don't try to play devils advocate and figure out a reason to excuse their shitty actions?
I mean, there's a difference if they know the person and they're trying to get both sides of tbe story vs they don't know the other friend who got so mad after a disagreement he sent me a literal short story length message about how I'll never be shit and I'm terrible and my SO of 5 years should leave me and then the person going " oh well maybe they just had a lot on their mind/bad a bad day " trying to justify such a shitshow because " they had their reasons "
One time my bff was ranting to me and I just ''actually, the fault is yours, you was a little careless bitch.''
And she just ._. But but...
We keep each others in line
And she just ._. But but...
We keep each others in line