But it's not just shy or anxious. I find it very respectful and it can be done with a lot of confidence. Anyway, major turn on here, but I've always been a sucker for a gentleman :D
Doggone it! Us guys are supposed to get verbal consent , if not written consent (that is notarized) every step of the way. That's the rules put in place by you, ladies. Otherwise we have to fear accusations of sexual harrasssment. Crud, even if everything seems to have gone OK, sometimes the girl changes her mind the next day, and we get to fight the "always believe the accuser" movement. I see there are accusations of harrassing encounters years later after the "victim" realizes that she thought she was fine with it at the time, but now realizes that she wasn't, and so retroactively "unconsents."
The accusations by themselves are enough to torpedo a career, and when broadcast on social media, prevent you from getting interviews and job offers. You don't get to have it both ways...either accept a "take charge" ethos with the mistakes that go with it, or accept the beta male behavior you're pushing.
The accusations by themselves are enough to torpedo a career, and when broadcast on social media, prevent you from getting interviews and job offers. You don't get to have it both ways...either accept a "take charge" ethos with the mistakes that go with it, or accept the beta male behavior you're pushing.