When one can’t control their emotions through a condition or when overwhelmed- one is more likely to act poorly. In acting poorly they are more likely to be treated poorly. Being treated poorly is more likely to make one feel poorly, and thus the cycle repeats. Ultimately the strength and drive to overcome this cycle must be from within an individual- but it doesn’t hurt to have a little help and sometimes is necessary to begin to heal. The way a “healthy” person responds to being treated badly can really help or hurt someone going through a crisis. While you do in fact have the right to treat people shitty, it’s not an excuse to act badly, but a justification to. The key is in extending sympathy and understanding where they are needed. We can’t control how others act but if we control anything it is our own behavior. Anyone can take a bad situation and make it worse. Ask yourself if you have what it takes to make it better. We can’t ask others to be strong if we can’t or won’t ourself
Reasons don't make it okay.
I've had people in my life who habe abused me and then blamed their anxiety and even after acknowledging it, they didn't even apologize or care to talk to me about how i felt.
I've had people in my life who habe abused me and then blamed their anxiety and even after acknowledging it, they didn't even apologize or care to talk to me about how i felt.