I don't help friends with the lovely dovey text I am more of the helper in the heated arguments. lol like one time one my friends were going through a divorce and she was yelling at her guy through text that he never spends time with their 2 kids a boy age 8 and girl age 6. He started on how it is hard for him to be a Dad because his Dad took him fishing and camping but he died when he was young.
She almost gave in and I said ask him where are his kids memories like that? He misses that about his Dad and his own kids don't even have a single memory like those for him. So she said it and he says that was unfair to say. I told her say unfair how unfair is it that you had an amazing Dad yet your own kids don't even have half the memories you had when you were their age and yet you are still alive and have free time on your hands and STILL won't make time for them.
So you know that guy always tried to play the victim card.
She almost gave in and I said ask him where are his kids memories like that? He misses that about his Dad and his own kids don't even have a single memory like those for him. So she said it and he says that was unfair to say. I told her say unfair how unfair is it that you had an amazing Dad yet your own kids don't even have half the memories you had when you were their age and yet you are still alive and have free time on your hands and STILL won't make time for them.
So you know that guy always tried to play the victim card.