I can relate

Same

I mean sex is sex, but the emotional intamacy that makes up the fluffy stuff just feels, I dunno, special? But I'm emotionally fucked up so YMMV

Same

I can read gay fanfiction with an eight man orgy, foot fetish, BDSM, shota and underage boys and can keep a straight face in an overcrowded train. And all of a sudden, I squeal in delight when one of them just say a sweet word.

God yes I mean sex is mostly lust but sweet actions between my OTP is what kills me