To the idea he is a “hero...” Her husband regularly told her that she looked fine, and encouraged her to eat junk, as opposed to trying to “do what was best for her health.” She reached her highest weight when their child was 6 months old and she was suffering post partum depression. She promptly lost 60lbs. Then she found out her husband was having an affair, and making fun of her weight with the coworker he was sleeping with. That gave her motivation to go further and lose a total of over 100lbs. Paraphrasing her: if her husband hadn’t cheated she likely wouldn’t have gone to such extremes, and she sees it as a bit of a blessing in disguise. She has made ok with him despite the divorce, and the two are aware his cheating was about him and not her. So- in other words no. A hero doesn’t cheat on his wife with a 6mo baby while she’s trying to deal with depression and lose weight, not does he lie and then mock her behind her back. He didn’t do it for her health, he did it for himself.
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