Things like that is why 'abstinence only' policy will never work. Young adults don't need help to figure sex out, but they sure as hell need help figuring SAFE sex out. If you paint sex as taboo and refuse to educate them about it, they will educate themselves, probably through trial and error. And then there are consequences.
And this is one of the main reason I can't take someone overly religious seriously. (don't get me wrong, if abstinence is your decision then you do you (for whatever reason, religious or not), but if it's the only thing you preach to your kids and refuse to consider an alternative then you are failing as a parent, and you are responsible if they end up being pregnant / knocking someone up because you were being delusionnal in hoping they wouldnt experiment on their own and failed to prepare them to do so in a safe environment.
There is a reason states with 'abstinence only programms' have the highest teenage pregnancy rates :/
PS : sorry, i got worked up ><
And this is one of the main reason I can't take someone overly religious seriously. (don't get me wrong, if abstinence is your decision then you do you (for whatever reason, religious or not), but if it's the only thing you preach to your kids and refuse to consider an alternative then you are failing as a parent, and you are responsible if they end up being pregnant / knocking someone up because you were being delusionnal in hoping they wouldnt experiment on their own and failed to prepare them to do so in a safe environment.
There is a reason states with 'abstinence only programms' have the highest teenage pregnancy rates :/
PS : sorry, i got worked up ><