I fucking hate surprise parties where everyone acts like they don't care about you the days before or about what you are celebrating.
I got married in CA. My whole family is in Texas. We moved to Texas after we got married and we were going to have our daughter. I knew my family was poor. So me and my husband decided to have a small family and few friends get together to celebrate the coming baby. We were asking for no gifts just come hungry and chat you know just get together.
My mom blew up about how we can't throw our own baby shower we told her it wasn't a baby shower. I asked when on her days off she said they change I said can you ask your boss for a day off on a certain day if you are given a month or 2 advance noticed. She flat out refused to do it. She kept treating me like I was shit for even thinking of inviting not only her but anyone. I was so stressed out and up set my daughter was going ape shit in my stomach. So I told her than fucking forget it.
But she kept on so I told her the stress she was putting on me was making the baby freak out. And I hung up. I refused to talk to her for 3 months. I was a month away from being due and she called me 3 times in a row I said "what!"
She said my cousin need to go to the hospital and she wanted me to go with her I said "I am busy." And hanged up.
Next my cousin called and said she wanted me to go is there any day I can go I asked if my mom is going she said she was driving. I said I don't think I can go.
But she begged and pleaded. So I said I will go.
It was all a lie they threw me a baby shower.
I was so fucking pissed I just tried to act happy around everyone else. My mom tried to say she had it planned but trust me she didn't I know she didn't.
To this day there is only 2 things that I will never forgive her for and this is one of them.
I love her with all my heart but that she can never fix.
I got married in CA. My whole family is in Texas. We moved to Texas after we got married and we were going to have our daughter. I knew my family was poor. So me and my husband decided to have a small family and few friends get together to celebrate the coming baby. We were asking for no gifts just come hungry and chat you know just get together.
My mom blew up about how we can't throw our own baby shower we told her it wasn't a baby shower. I asked when on her days off she said they change I said can you ask your boss for a day off on a certain day if you are given a month or 2 advance noticed. She flat out refused to do it. She kept treating me like I was shit for even thinking of inviting not only her but anyone. I was so stressed out and up set my daughter was going ape shit in my stomach. So I told her than fucking forget it.
She said my cousin need to go to the hospital and she wanted me to go with her I said "I am busy." And hanged up.
Next my cousin called and said she wanted me to go is there any day I can go I asked if my mom is going she said she was driving. I said I don't think I can go.
But she begged and pleaded. So I said I will go.
It was all a lie they threw me a baby shower.
I was so fucking pissed I just tried to act happy around everyone else. My mom tried to say she had it planned but trust me she didn't I know she didn't.
To this day there is only 2 things that I will never forgive her for and this is one of them.
I love her with all my heart but that she can never fix.