I mean, when I was stabbed I had to bleed on the doctor a bit specifically so that she could help heal me, so sometimes you have to bleed on others to heal? I guess?
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· 5 years ago
@Xvarnah this is how it happened. The unhealable wound bled all over me. I swear, I am the victim in this.
I realize this is a lyric, but I 100% think in your scenario being sick is a choice you engage in whole-heartedly <.<
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· 5 years ago
I just keep saying it mama bear. You just get me. I believe the best description I've heard for my affliction is: "embrace it with a sincere and violent enthusiasm"
You've had your moments I'd say
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Wait, how violent would you LIKE
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· 5 years ago
Really? Give me an example of when
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Well, I don't want her not to be able to walk comfortably for a week- that would be too long. Maybe like 4 days? That's a nice benchmark
Well you and sinderella had some sort of a spat I think. Not to mention t-bag. I think those have the violence corner niched
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I feel like you're going to need some prosthetic intervention to make that happen
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· 5 years ago
Sinderella was a princess-y coward. A stiff breeze would've blown her over and funkmaster told her so. Tbag is scum- I mean almost unworthy of the term human, I did what any capable soul should've.
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Fair point though.
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Let you in on a little secret: I don't REALLY want to hurt my partner in any significant way. It's a nice thing to aspire to, everyone benefits from the effort put forward.
Easy now I wasn't trying to release the worms haha
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I assumed so. You don't seem the BDSM type. Though it's certainly easy for people to get hurt even without trying. If you WANTED to truly hurt her there'd certainly be more effective ways to make her unable to walk again. Arguably Less fun though
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· 5 years ago
Yeah I'm not getting into it.
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Not so fast now Haha. I'm a STRONG S. Sexually speaking I'm hyper dominant, and quite sadistic, but well within the boundaries. It's a good time.
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And no. I don't ever want to hurt a partner of mine like that. On second thought I don't want hurt a partner of mine at all. That's kind of the point.
I could potentially see the dominant part, but you seem too inclined to care about your partners to want or need to actively hurt them to get off. Though to be clear when I say BDSM I'm classifying it as more extreme than someone who uses handcuffs or spanking occasionally etc
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^ I wrote that before I read the last part of your comment and now it's just backed up 100 fold
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· 5 years ago
Fair enough. No I don't whip/beat my partners, but the things that I do, that are intended to cause pain, are intended to cause more than just a little tiny bit of pain- if that makes sense.
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And when you find a girl who's into it, good lord it's a damn good time.
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On our 2nd ever meeting/date I took this 20yo college student to my company Christmas party. She went and bought a fancy dress for it and everything. Most submissive, kinky girl I've ever been with. Would literally kiss me in the buffet line, I'd grab her ass while lined up to get a drink.
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The party was held overnight at a hotel resort outside Vancouver. We left the party to go back to our room and smoke a J. A whole family gets in the elevator including 3 little kids, the youngest of which ends up standing to my right and is smiling at me/sticking his tongue out and generally being a goof- all while I'm literally grabbing her ass underneath her dress with my left arm. I've never spanked anyone so much or so hard.
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· 5 years ago
I used to make her count, and thank me in between strikes :)
Haha so you're a borderline bdsm. I think a lot of guys are naturally attracted to being dominant a majority of the time in some way or another. Blame the testosterone I guess.
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I imagine it's not that hard to find a girl into that.. If you look in the right places. Then again some of those places are places best not looked at so it depends how far you're willing to go to find them I guess
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Also I gotta admit I had no idea where that family and little boy part of the story was going, so I'm glad it ended with just you grabbing her ass
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· 5 years ago
Thank the testosterone*. Idk, I know enough and more guys, friends, who aren't aggressive or dominant at all. They're complete pushovers.. and I have to say it's interesting to me that people like that even exist. I can't imagine being like that, but I respect their choices.
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Not at all. I haven't yet met a girl who didn't enjoy at least parts of that side of things. I'm always respectful of their boundaries, so its always fun. And no, I'm not willing to look specifically for it anyway. Like I said, most women seem to be into it, and short of being ULTRA vanilla, and just boring, I wouldn't pass over one woman for another, just because she's not into that. Chances are if I get to find out she's wild, we've already gotten to know and like each other in other ways.
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Yeah, completely harmless. I don't think anyone guessed what was happening except dad, and he gave me a smile of approval before they got out of the elevator.
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I fingered her once we were alone ahahahaha
Well I was referring more to sex. Guys often aren't dominant any more so than women in social settings. Especially around other males you either have to be in a constant battle to be dominant or else you have to just settle into a dynamic
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there are, of course, men who want to be dominated but they seem to be less prevalent
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Well at least the mom didn't notice haha. Seems she likely would have had a different reaction
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· 5 years ago
Ah, well see now you need to clarify that. Yeah I can't be bothered to get into a cockfight. They can find out whether I'm dominant if and then that kind if caveman behaviour becomes necessary. But during sex... it's the most fun when the girl fights back.
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Correction. There are no men who want to be dominated. There are women with 'gashes', and temporary women with 'cattle-prods'
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She would've wanted to join? Yeah I never thought about that. I'm glad she didn't notice, i wasn't up to it that night. Just too much athleticism required for that. Dinner was heavy, it was late.
Not gonna lie "It's the most fun when the girl fights back" does sound a bit rape-y <.<
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Haha I think we'll have to disagree with that as well. Most men want to be dominated at least some of the time. Some do all of the time. Different strokes for different BDSM folks
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Well I suppose she might have Haha. That would probably actually be worse than her just getting scandalized
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Does it? Well, I remember watching an interview between Gavin Mcinnes and a lady who represented a hyper-feminist organization. I used to agree with his content at the VERY beginning, before he went off the deep-end and started saying crazy shit. The lady in question was an outstanding spokesperson for modern feminism. Well spoken, logical, not outrageous, and Mcinnes was just being outrageous for the views
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He's having a chat with this lady, and they're discussing how sex should be equal, and respectful, consenting, all that crap. And while I agree with what she's saying objectively, in that particular regard, Mcinnes made more a valid statement. I'm paraphrasing because I don't remember the exact words, but in trying to describe what "Good Sex" looked like, he basically said: "If someone was watching, they shouldn't be able to tell difference between sex and rape". Now he was exaggerating, but he goes on to explain how in University, he hooked up with a girl and the next day..
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she emailed him and said "thank you for ***ing me last night". Basically he explains how sex should be raw, violent and messy, and yes, of course, it's crucial that both parties are consenting and comfortable at all times. But to paint the picture correctly: I would like to have raw, violent, passionate, messy, aggressive, rough, primal sex with a girl who's enjoying it as much or more than I am. And I'm not apologizing for it
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Speaking for myself personally, I'm dominant, so I generally prefer submissive girls, but not cowards. I like someone with a little fire and fight. I guess what I'm saying is: this is my preference, and I want someone in sync with me, who can enjoy the converse from the female POV.
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And idk, I rarely enjoy being dominated, except again when it's with someone who I'm "in sync" with, and in that case we would both know who's really in charge anyway.
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Worse? Why on earth would it be worse? She'll never have a shot with me again.. she would be privileged ;)
amen to our lord and savior
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An eye for an eye.
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That was like a layup. Thank you!
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Wait.. the red sea was innuendo right? ;)
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Wait, how violent would you LIKE
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Well, I don't want her not to be able to walk comfortably for a week- that would be too long. Maybe like 4 days? That's a nice benchmark
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I feel like you're going to need some prosthetic intervention to make that happen
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Fair point though.
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Let you in on a little secret: I don't REALLY want to hurt my partner in any significant way. It's a nice thing to aspire to, everyone benefits from the effort put forward.
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I assumed so. You don't seem the BDSM type. Though it's certainly easy for people to get hurt even without trying. If you WANTED to truly hurt her there'd certainly be more effective ways to make her unable to walk again. Arguably Less fun though
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Not so fast now Haha. I'm a STRONG S. Sexually speaking I'm hyper dominant, and quite sadistic, but well within the boundaries. It's a good time.
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And no. I don't ever want to hurt a partner of mine like that. On second thought I don't want hurt a partner of mine at all. That's kind of the point.
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^ I wrote that before I read the last part of your comment and now it's just backed up 100 fold
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And when you find a girl who's into it, good lord it's a damn good time.
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On our 2nd ever meeting/date I took this 20yo college student to my company Christmas party. She went and bought a fancy dress for it and everything. Most submissive, kinky girl I've ever been with. Would literally kiss me in the buffet line, I'd grab her ass while lined up to get a drink.
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The party was held overnight at a hotel resort outside Vancouver. We left the party to go back to our room and smoke a J. A whole family gets in the elevator including 3 little kids, the youngest of which ends up standing to my right and is smiling at me/sticking his tongue out and generally being a goof- all while I'm literally grabbing her ass underneath her dress with my left arm. I've never spanked anyone so much or so hard.
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I imagine it's not that hard to find a girl into that.. If you look in the right places. Then again some of those places are places best not looked at so it depends how far you're willing to go to find them I guess
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Also I gotta admit I had no idea where that family and little boy part of the story was going, so I'm glad it ended with just you grabbing her ass
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Not at all. I haven't yet met a girl who didn't enjoy at least parts of that side of things. I'm always respectful of their boundaries, so its always fun. And no, I'm not willing to look specifically for it anyway. Like I said, most women seem to be into it, and short of being ULTRA vanilla, and just boring, I wouldn't pass over one woman for another, just because she's not into that. Chances are if I get to find out she's wild, we've already gotten to know and like each other in other ways.
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Yeah, completely harmless. I don't think anyone guessed what was happening except dad, and he gave me a smile of approval before they got out of the elevator.
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I fingered her once we were alone ahahahaha
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there are, of course, men who want to be dominated but they seem to be less prevalent
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Well at least the mom didn't notice haha. Seems she likely would have had a different reaction
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Correction. There are no men who want to be dominated. There are women with 'gashes', and temporary women with 'cattle-prods'
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She would've wanted to join? Yeah I never thought about that. I'm glad she didn't notice, i wasn't up to it that night. Just too much athleticism required for that. Dinner was heavy, it was late.
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Haha I think we'll have to disagree with that as well. Most men want to be dominated at least some of the time. Some do all of the time. Different strokes for different BDSM folks
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Well I suppose she might have Haha. That would probably actually be worse than her just getting scandalized
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He's having a chat with this lady, and they're discussing how sex should be equal, and respectful, consenting, all that crap. And while I agree with what she's saying objectively, in that particular regard, Mcinnes made more a valid statement. I'm paraphrasing because I don't remember the exact words, but in trying to describe what "Good Sex" looked like, he basically said: "If someone was watching, they shouldn't be able to tell difference between sex and rape". Now he was exaggerating, but he goes on to explain how in University, he hooked up with a girl and the next day..
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Speaking for myself personally, I'm dominant, so I generally prefer submissive girls, but not cowards. I like someone with a little fire and fight. I guess what I'm saying is: this is my preference, and I want someone in sync with me, who can enjoy the converse from the female POV.
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And idk, I rarely enjoy being dominated, except again when it's with someone who I'm "in sync" with, and in that case we would both know who's really in charge anyway.
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Worse? Why on earth would it be worse? She'll never have a shot with me again.. she would be privileged ;)