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I agree in many ways. More people have more access to porn at earlier ages. Those with little or no experience and who are still forming their preferences and expectations have a disadvantage when adults with experience often get confused or caught up in thinking the fantasies and editing of porn and it’s perfectly selected performers are a realistic standard to judge sex by. There is no “normal” with sex- but the unrealistic, often risky or unpleasant acts in a standard porno aren’t the best place for a virgin to form their idea of how sex “should be.”

The fact that there is generally little discussion or consent, we don’t see safewords or the emotional support before or after these things- and that’s part of the fantasy. No one is fumbling for a rubber or saying “but it’s my birthday...” But that doesn’t do a curious 12 or whatever year old any good. An adult (might) know that in real life things aren’t likely to work that way on a Tuesday night- but if what you have to go off of are pornos and clinical sex Ed talk- you are likely unaware. So To he clear I think porn in general is healthy, and that there should be porn to cater to most all desires- no need to stop making the porn we know and love- but it’s not a bad idea to make porn that serves as both erotic material AND in helping set realistic expectations and etiquette of safe, consenting, mutually enjoyable sex so that young people can start out a little more “vanilla” and then decide where they want their sexual journey to go as they gain experience and wisdom.