I believe not just using the exact same way of discipline with each kid all their life.
I grew up that way. Yes I came out fine but that also created my 2nd youngest brother who REALLY should of been spanked. Still need stop be if you ask me.
There will always be those kids that will not respond to any form of discipline other than spankings.
When done properly it is a just as good way to discipline as others. But I do say it should be a last resort when it is with a kid that is old enough to understand you and understand thier actions have consequences.
Never spank when angry, or with a belt or anything like that, OR spank their bare skin.
And NEVER SPANK TILL YOU THINK THEY HAD ENOUGH!
Tell them exactly how many they will receive and stick to it. So if you say 1 only do 1 but NEVER GO MORE THAN 3!
When my daughter was still a toddler if she touched something or almost did that could hurt her we would spank the hand she used. Just 1 quick tap to get her to know that is not for her
When she was old but still in diapers if she did something bad like hit or bite or something else bad we spank 1 spank on her bottom with her diaper on.
When she was old enough to understand us and know what it meant to be in trouble we put her in time out.
Now we take phone and computer away.
But this is all because we found what works for her.
I grew up that way. Yes I came out fine but that also created my 2nd youngest brother who REALLY should of been spanked. Still need stop be if you ask me.
There will always be those kids that will not respond to any form of discipline other than spankings.
When done properly it is a just as good way to discipline as others. But I do say it should be a last resort when it is with a kid that is old enough to understand you and understand thier actions have consequences.
Never spank when angry, or with a belt or anything like that, OR spank their bare skin.
And NEVER SPANK TILL YOU THINK THEY HAD ENOUGH!
Tell them exactly how many they will receive and stick to it. So if you say 1 only do 1 but NEVER GO MORE THAN 3!
When my daughter was still a toddler if she touched something or almost did that could hurt her we would spank the hand she used. Just 1 quick tap to get her to know that is not for her
When she was old enough to understand us and know what it meant to be in trouble we put her in time out.
Now we take phone and computer away.
But this is all because we found what works for her.