Thots

Standards are important. We often set them high though and we may find that we can be perfectly happy with something other than what we thought we wanted. We may even find we were standing in our own way to happiness. But there’s nothing wrong with asking for what you want, and to imply that a woman who looks “like that” is any less worthy of love from the man described is shallow thinking too. Relationships are about more than that. I know plenty of “6 foot 6 figure 6 pack” people who have partners who are economically or looks wise often though of by (rude shallow) people as “way below their league.” It doesn’t matter what the world thinks of your looks so long as that one person finds you attractive and you them. What we find attractive often changes through life and experience anyway. Just try and be the best you that you can be and don’t settle- but be open to the idea that you might not actually need the things you think you need to be happy. Find happiness where you find it.