You can find friendly people running casual chess clubs anywhere! Or painting classes are really fun, usually theres some kind of lesson where they teach you a specific painting. Otherwise local parks and art muesums usually have some kind of fun event. I'd most reccomend checking your local community college for something fun, sometimes they have weird out-of-the-box courses, like beekeeping!
*Doubt* that any girl would leave her [boy]friend because s/he started cooking for her, working out more and not going out to get hit on by other girls.
Thats up setting but it seemed these people were at different points in their lives with different values. It could be like was a 19/20year old and a 25 year old when they started. Im glad they get to enjoy a new aspect of life now and hope someone on the same page sees their worth ^-^
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