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guest_
· 4 years ago
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That does seem a bit toxic. We can debate wether or not it’s insecure to worry about someone spending time with their ex a lot of that comes down to circumstance. Where it becomes toxic is when we look at the word “let.” In a relationship you can “let” someone kiss you, but you can’t “let” them see a friend or whatever. They don’t need your consent to live their life.
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guest_
· 4 years ago
You can approve, condone, be alright with- or not. Object, disagree, dislike. You can discuss- apps like patook are exclusively for meeting platonic friends. Maybe they would be willing to compromise with something you’d be more alright with. Now.... if they aren’t... the relationship may be toxic.
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guest_
· 4 years ago
Maybe not toxic to THEM even- but toxic for both of you. You may not be compatible. They may be looking for a person who is less insecure, or a person who doesn’t try to stop them from doing what they like, or even an “open relationship” and you- if you dislike what they are doing and especially if they aren’t willing to compromise or otherwise accommodate your needs and feelings... they may not be compatible with you.
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guest_
· 4 years ago
Long term that can be toxic. One or both of you may have strong negative feelings. The trust at the heart of your relationship may be compromised. You may not be willing to take that trust as far as they are- or they may resent what to them feels like a lack of trust. In time that isn’t healthy for anyone involved.
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rosalinas
· 4 years ago
Who uses tinder to make friends?
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