If I had to go back to when I was trying to date I think who I would look for would still be the same.
Male
Same age as me or 2 yrs younger or older
Taller than me (I’m 5’4) because I need help getting stuff from high.
Some one stronger than me because I am weak when it comes to muscles. Doesn’t have to be buff just stronger lol
Someone who accepts I am Asexual
Blue eyes best but not a must
Dark or red hair a must sorry I just don’t like blonde men
Likes sci-fi and fantasy
Believes Laughter is best medicine
Believes in god or at least a higher power
Wants kids
Loves animals
Doesn’t have to be smart
Doesn’t treat me like I’m dumb due to my dyslexia.
Likes video games
Can fix a computer and a car (because I can’t)
Loves southern cooking
Has a good family (not a must as long as he is good)
Loves my family like I do
Helps with kids and around the House
Honestly I got really close with my husband only a few things off but that is ok. He dyes his hair lol
Man I don't think guys even have a big list like that. If they're "locker room talking" they pretend they need a 9/10 with big tits that cooks and cleans or whatever, but then you watch them and they're usually just happy with girls that make them happy. If you love them they're always 11/10 in your eyes.
This is my rock bottom list lol if I was placing an order for the perfect husband it be a mile long. Well perfect for me that is.
But if you notice I don’t care their body, or that they have hair or be bald, or have money, or buy me things, or even “handle me at my worst”
I believe a good couple can call each other on their bullshit and not let it sly.
There is also some things I didn’t ask that shouldn’t have to be asked like doesn’t treat me like garbage or abuse me.
I did add about the dyslexia thing because a lot of ex’s did treat me like garbage because they didn’t understand there is more than 1 type of dyslexia.
Plus I bring a lot to the table myself
I:
Cook good southern meals
Clean
Love unconditionally
Guaranteed never to cheat
Sew
Sex is all about making them feel good lol
You can bring your problems to me and I will listen and help either you work through it or do it for you
I will stand up for you
I can reach stuff close to the ground easier lol
I’m eclectic so I love almost all types of music
And though sci-fi is my fav I like all types of movies
I can’t fix a car or computer but I can make a website and fix a flat tire
My favorite thing about video games is watching others play and help them by saying look out or there is some bullets
My family will accept anyone as part of the family so if your family doesn’t love you mine will
I rub sore feet and aching backs from a long day at work.
I love kids
And the list goes on
Male
Same age as me or 2 yrs younger or older
Taller than me (I’m 5’4) because I need help getting stuff from high.
Some one stronger than me because I am weak when it comes to muscles. Doesn’t have to be buff just stronger lol
Someone who accepts I am Asexual
Blue eyes best but not a must
Dark or red hair a must sorry I just don’t like blonde men
Likes sci-fi and fantasy
Believes Laughter is best medicine
Believes in god or at least a higher power
Wants kids
Loves animals
Doesn’t have to be smart
Doesn’t treat me like I’m dumb due to my dyslexia.
Likes video games
Can fix a computer and a car (because I can’t)
Loves southern cooking
Has a good family (not a must as long as he is good)
Loves my family like I do
Helps with kids and around the House
Honestly I got really close with my husband only a few things off but that is ok. He dyes his hair lol
But if you notice I don’t care their body, or that they have hair or be bald, or have money, or buy me things, or even “handle me at my worst”
I believe a good couple can call each other on their bullshit and not let it sly.
There is also some things I didn’t ask that shouldn’t have to be asked like doesn’t treat me like garbage or abuse me.
I did add about the dyslexia thing because a lot of ex’s did treat me like garbage because they didn’t understand there is more than 1 type of dyslexia.
Plus I bring a lot to the table myself
Cook good southern meals
Clean
Love unconditionally
Guaranteed never to cheat
Sew
Sex is all about making them feel good lol
You can bring your problems to me and I will listen and help either you work through it or do it for you
I will stand up for you
I can reach stuff close to the ground easier lol
I’m eclectic so I love almost all types of music
And though sci-fi is my fav I like all types of movies
I can’t fix a car or computer but I can make a website and fix a flat tire
My favorite thing about video games is watching others play and help them by saying look out or there is some bullets
My family will accept anyone as part of the family so if your family doesn’t love you mine will
I rub sore feet and aching backs from a long day at work.
I love kids
And the list goes on