If it is something where if I say it than it will hurt them beyond name calling than I will just refuse to say it and leave. I just explain the problem if it is something fixable.
I have a friend who is most the time a good person. But she can become self absorbed she watches soap operas and she watches 4 at the least. Some come on at the same time so she has more than one tv to record them all on vhs than watches them all on Sunday.
Now honestly I let it slide for a long time that she would not only not let her own kids watch tv but would block her siblings from watching what they wanted on their OWN TV because she needed it for recording.
Her siblings were just 8 they were twins. She would bark at them like a mad woman. She was living there due to certain reasons that are just to long to get into. I would tell her she needs to stop being so pushy and mean it was their tv.
I wanted to say claim the fuck down you are acting like a damn monster they are just kids.
One day her brother recorded over her tape with scooby doo by accident.
She threw a big fucking fit. He cried and ran to his mom the poor kid was scared. He was scared in his own home. He was already kicked from his own room thanks to her moving in and she blocked him from tv or anything he would normally have than she treats him like that, not only that she shook him hard while calling him all sorts of names.
So I let the damn break I let everything come out all the things I held back about her poured from me like water flows. She looked at me like her brother looked at her. She was scared and hurt. And I looked her dead in the eye and told her as God as my witness if I ever see you lay a finger on any of your siblings again I will do it to you 10 folds.
She tried to say something and I told her I don’t give a damn what you have to say. You tell your brother you are sorry and do not Say another damn word.
That is why I hold back. Because I bring mountains down.
I have a friend who is most the time a good person. But she can become self absorbed she watches soap operas and she watches 4 at the least. Some come on at the same time so she has more than one tv to record them all on vhs than watches them all on Sunday.
Now honestly I let it slide for a long time that she would not only not let her own kids watch tv but would block her siblings from watching what they wanted on their OWN TV because she needed it for recording.
Her siblings were just 8 they were twins. She would bark at them like a mad woman. She was living there due to certain reasons that are just to long to get into. I would tell her she needs to stop being so pushy and mean it was their tv.
I wanted to say claim the fuck down you are acting like a damn monster they are just kids.
She threw a big fucking fit. He cried and ran to his mom the poor kid was scared. He was scared in his own home. He was already kicked from his own room thanks to her moving in and she blocked him from tv or anything he would normally have than she treats him like that, not only that she shook him hard while calling him all sorts of names.
So I let the damn break I let everything come out all the things I held back about her poured from me like water flows. She looked at me like her brother looked at her. She was scared and hurt. And I looked her dead in the eye and told her as God as my witness if I ever see you lay a finger on any of your siblings again I will do it to you 10 folds.
She tried to say something and I told her I don’t give a damn what you have to say. You tell your brother you are sorry and do not Say another damn word.
That is why I hold back. Because I bring mountains down.