cold

And doing it during a date night just makes it even worse

Perhaps... but we don't know the story. Maybe he's just a D-Bag rager that needs to be on a list registered with the police.
Ooorrr, it's equally possible that this is kharma doing is job because she's a self-centered Karen thot.

Because isn't that a thing now? Men having some self respect and expressing emotion they weren't allowed to before? Respecting their emotion and not letting someone shit on them?

If either of them are willing to break up with each other on a day like valentines day, during dinner, then one of them dodged a huge bullet.