there really is! Its not fair to the ones you leave behind.....trust me i know. After my friend took his life with a gun in a public restroom, I was sad but also pretty MAD at him! that was ten years ago.
I've known people who were suicidal, but i can't say I have ever really understood it. There is far to much I don't know, haven't seen, haven't done, people I haven't met, stories yet to be created...
That's good to hear, sincerely. But without knowing it, you have hit the nail on the head, or rather, the wrong end of the nail. A suicidal person has lost all hope for the future. There is nothing more they want to know about the world, there is nothing else they want to see, no more people they want to meet and they want all stories to end as soon as possible. I have to admit that I never thought a state was really possible, and that stories were exaggerated for dramatic effect. Then my brain changed, I could feel it going rotten. I wanted nothing but to lie down forever. Luckily that also meant had no motivation or energy to actually kill myself before I was hospitalised. That is why antidepressants can be so dangerous; if they increase your levels of motivation before you actually feel better you might actually do it. Hopefully this paragraph might help someone else understand how a suicidal person really thinks.
And remember, you can't stop someone committing suicide using logic; the logic curcuits of the brain are literally fried at this point. Just stay with them, that's it. I remember feeling like a child again at that low point in my life; I just wanted my mum to hug me and make it all better.
That's true, I was only thinking of purely psychological emotions but brain chemistry can seriously effect the way you feel and think, that is the point of recreational drugs. Sometimes the chemistry of the brain can simply change by itself, just as someone can become hypoglycemic or get high blood pressure without any outside influence. And there is no amount of cheering up that can help a brain chemistry thing.
This is true. I myself want to suicide. No joke. But I told a really good friend I was gonna do it, and she told me so many things that changed my mind. Point is: with the help of friends and family or heck, even strangers, you can get through things. And here I am now
Ooooh, should I tell her? Eh, screw it.
Iceshard actually died 50 weeks ago. He made it an entire week, but nobody here cared enough to respond, so he decided to put a swift and final end to his problems. If only you had responded soon, he would still be with us today. :(
Not to mention horrible. How do you think Ice feels about that?? It's not funny to joke about someone's death, speaking from experience. People who talk about your death are awful. It feels awful. So shut your trap.
Maybe, JUST maybe you should ask Ice about how he feels before you go off on your little rants.
But no, I guess showing all of funsubstance what little do-gooders you are is all that matters...
Oh, you silly kids, thinking you are saving lives from behind a keyboard. If you gave half a shit, you'd go out into the real world and help somebody, and not delude yourself (or fool others, as it were) that you are kind/caring/compassionate internet folk.
And then you have the balls to attack people for making a joke, at YOUR expense, no less, and pretend you know what is going through the mind of another user, when you couldn't resist going on a rant before they themselves had their say?
You're lucky you're on this website, where most of it's userbase are still naive enough to take you people and what you say at face value. Enjoy your thumbs, Justice Crusaders...
Lmfao! Mgoveia, that was funny as Shit! I swear in real life u n ur wife and me n my husband would be buddies. I can't stop laughing n had to share with my husband. ( He sensibly chuckled but my sides hurt). Your comments remind me of my dad's idiotic sense of humor.
Oh, silly potter. You "save lives", but would deny my future children a chance at one. Someday you will grow up and cringe about what a horrible person you once were.
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You know, if I wanted to talk to schizos, I'd go to work. I couldn't give less of a shit about you and your problems, especially after that tired-ass attack on my abilities as a parent. Now kindly fuck off and allow the adults to have a joke or two without turning every damn post into your own personal cry for attention.
If that's all it takes for you to want to die, you need to seek professional help. If you're just doing this for attention or to get people on your side again after that bs, that's even worse. You know full well poor angie here is just BEGGING to be emotionally manipulated by any number of female FSers.
Don't you DARE accuse anyone of anything!! Especially nit Angelus! He has done nothing, NOTHING but defend me against you. You have no reason whatsoever to bash on him, so leave him ALONE. I'm the one you have beef with, not him. FUCK OFF, and its you and I, not him, you, and I. He has nothing to do with this!!
Sam... Stand down... Mgoveia, it's Angelus... Not angie or ange... Angelus! Angelus is who I was born to be... Not someones rude insults and bashing at MY friend... I'm sick of you hating at me, my comments and my friends... I'm sick of it ALL
Sorry, hon. None of us get everything we want in life. I'm sorry you weren't raised to cope with this fact without attempting to hold strangers emotionally hostage with your threats of suicide.
Now why don't you go kiss angie and make it all better before he blows off more steam by bumping post with more of his signature inane drivel and declarations of beauty to strange girls on the internet.
M. Dont stoop to their level. Angelus just idk. And potter thats enough. You talk an awful lot of self pitty emo shit for someone who says theyre "not worth your time, zelda"
That's not what I meant. I dont really hate anyone, it's just... why are we being downvoted for sticking up for ourselves and someone else? :/ that's what makes me uncomfortable.
You weren't uncomfortable when you were reveling in the idea of me no longer being able to pass on my genes, were you? So boo hoo for you.
And whoop-de-do! So you got a couple downthumbs. Do you realize there are people here who have amassed vast quantities of downthumbs during their time here merely for being themselves? Cry more, why don't you.
They said that?
How can they say that about mgoveia's genes/parenting skills and then victimize themselves. Also, people need to stop taking downvotes so personal. It's like when they delete comments so they'll stop having dislikes, that's coward.
Mgoviea, I never said anything bad about your parental abilities. I just was angry at the time and was wrong in saying what I did. I'm sorry. And taeminnieah, I wasn't trying to victimize myself. I'm just telling the truth. I do hate myself. I also hate the thought of hurting anyone else.
You kids really need help (o_o). Seriously, stop getting so butt-hurt everytime someone points out your attention-seeking, fix the issue. FS is not a hook-up site, stop treating it like one. And seriously potter? Saving lives on the internet yet you claim you wanna kill yourself?
SIIIILENCE. now. Potter, we got it, you hate yourself..Many of us here do. But noone gives two shits. Mgoveia. I expected you to be the wise one and walk away from this shit. And all the others listen up. I made this post in a dark time where everyone was fighting around me or with me. Please stop fighting. I dont expect you to be friends. Just shut up and get back to not having a life online
I just wanted to apologize to everyone in this thread... I have been way out of line. I was angry at being lied to but that's life. So I am sorry, and I hope we can all go back to being neutral and everyone is normal on FS again.
Mgoveia, I especially wanted to apologize to you. I've been nasty to you, and I know that was wrong. I had zero right to stab at your parenting abilities, I actually think you make a great parent. So I'm sorry. To everyone.
Lied to?
Neutral? Normal on FS?
Should I even ask?
And btw, much like the rampant compliments on FS, I can't take this seriously, because honestly, you don't know me well enough (or at all) to think I make a great parent. I'm sorry if I seem like I'm just being argumentative for it's own sake right now, but this has always bothered me on FS. I'm not even sure if it's my inner skeptic coming out, or the fact that I wish at least ONE person other than my wife knew me that well, but I'd really prefer if people didn't take this route with me. All it does is make me think of better times, and the fact that making friends only gets more difficult with age.
Apologies for the shit, self-pitying feel of this comment. I've just finished four 12 hour shifts in a row, and am too exhausted to keep from overthinking dumb things right now. This last day was a real turd sandwich, too.
I'm sorry. That really does suck. And you don't need to apologize, I hate it when I self pity. I hate it but can't seem to stop. So it's okay. And I just want to not give a shit anymore, not have any more arguments. I just want to have fun, like this site is for.
i have a friend who was in a really deep depression for a couple of months. i can relate to this girl who sent the text bc that was, in a way, me. i talked to her for more than 6 hours on the phone, convincing her to not take her own life. & it's one of the best things i ever did! i'm glad to say she's still with me & has gotten a lot better :) never lose hope. once you hit rock bottom, the only way you can go is up!
the girl i wrote about in the text came to my house afterwards and just sat there. not talking. she just looked at me still holding the noose and she was almost crying and so was i. we burned the noose and she made me a cocktail because she knows it calms me down. i love her so much and if you really talked your friend out of killing herself youre an awesome friend in my book
Thinking back to those days is painful, but it is true that just being there for someone in that state can make all the difference. I'm really glad you're feeling better.
Princess Zelda, I understand depression and anxiety, I'm here for you anytime if you need some one to vent to or just chat with, I'll give you my Kik or Email. Btw, you're a very beautiful girl.
Iceshard actually died 50 weeks ago. He made it an entire week, but nobody here cared enough to respond, so he decided to put a swift and final end to his problems. If only you had responded soon, he would still be with us today. :(
But no, I guess showing all of funsubstance what little do-gooders you are is all that matters...
And then you have the balls to attack people for making a joke, at YOUR expense, no less, and pretend you know what is going through the mind of another user, when you couldn't resist going on a rant before they themselves had their say?
You're lucky you're on this website, where most of it's userbase are still naive enough to take you people and what you say at face value. Enjoy your thumbs, Justice Crusaders...
You know, if I wanted to talk to schizos, I'd go to work. I couldn't give less of a shit about you and your problems, especially after that tired-ass attack on my abilities as a parent. Now kindly fuck off and allow the adults to have a joke or two without turning every damn post into your own personal cry for attention.
It always amazes me seeing you types feed off each other. Please, do go on!
Now why don't you go kiss angie and make it all better before he blows off more steam by bumping post with more of his signature inane drivel and declarations of beauty to strange girls on the internet.
And whoop-de-do! So you got a couple downthumbs. Do you realize there are people here who have amassed vast quantities of downthumbs during their time here merely for being themselves? Cry more, why don't you.
How can they say that about mgoveia's genes/parenting skills and then victimize themselves. Also, people need to stop taking downvotes so personal. It's like when they delete comments so they'll stop having dislikes, that's coward.
Wisdom does not abide folly. If these kids want to continue with their silliness, that's on them. At least I can say I tried.
Mgoveia, I especially wanted to apologize to you. I've been nasty to you, and I know that was wrong. I had zero right to stab at your parenting abilities, I actually think you make a great parent. So I'm sorry. To everyone.
Neutral? Normal on FS?
Should I even ask?
And btw, much like the rampant compliments on FS, I can't take this seriously, because honestly, you don't know me well enough (or at all) to think I make a great parent. I'm sorry if I seem like I'm just being argumentative for it's own sake right now, but this has always bothered me on FS. I'm not even sure if it's my inner skeptic coming out, or the fact that I wish at least ONE person other than my wife knew me that well, but I'd really prefer if people didn't take this route with me. All it does is make me think of better times, and the fact that making friends only gets more difficult with age.
Apologies for the shit, self-pitying feel of this comment. I've just finished four 12 hour shifts in a row, and am too exhausted to keep from overthinking dumb things right now. This last day was a real turd sandwich, too.