overly not being racist or sexist IS the new racism/sexism. People have got to the point trying to be so politically correct that the shit they do IS racist/sexist/etc.
I think it's whether or not people care. Most guys I know don't care what they're called. Most girls I know don't like being called mean things.
Oh wait...I don't know any girls...
*cries*
Oh wait...I don't know any girls...
*cries*