Not necessarily. There was once a long-term study done on Chinese and American parents and their children. Chinese parents were obviously asian, but they were nativized and had american children. American parents were white. The purpose of the study was to see how different parenting (based on cultural values) would affect children.
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The initial discoveries were that, when the children received a bad grade, most of the Chinese parents (to be referred to as 'the asians' and Americans as 'whites; from now on) told their children that if they don't do this, they'll never be successful, that they'll be working at a McDonalds with minimum wage, as a clerk, and all that demotivational bullshit we always hear. The whites usually told their kids that everything'll be alright, that they tried their best, and all that motivational bullshit that we always hear.
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In the long term, it was found that more of the asian kids grew up to be more successful than most of the white kids.
Lesson:
It's not good to constantly abuse your kids, but please, for the love of god, don't let them get away with not doing well. Push them to do their best, and once they've obviously hit their limit, then give them the pat. Also parents, please don't let your spawn get away with being an annoying ass in public. Nobody wants to hear your kid bitch about not getting a certain flavor of gum when little Billy in the other line got it.
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The initial discoveries were that, when the children received a bad grade, most of the Chinese parents (to be referred to as 'the asians' and Americans as 'whites; from now on) told their children that if they don't do this, they'll never be successful, that they'll be working at a McDonalds with minimum wage, as a clerk, and all that demotivational bullshit we always hear. The whites usually told their kids that everything'll be alright, that they tried their best, and all that motivational bullshit that we always hear.
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In the long term, it was found that more of the asian kids grew up to be more successful than most of the white kids.
It's not good to constantly abuse your kids, but please, for the love of god, don't let them get away with not doing well. Push them to do their best, and once they've obviously hit their limit, then give them the pat. Also parents, please don't let your spawn get away with being an annoying ass in public. Nobody wants to hear your kid bitch about not getting a certain flavor of gum when little Billy in the other line got it.