nothing wrong with being proud of parts of history, but don’t ignore the parts of history that you don’t like. i’m a proud American and Catholic but BOY is there a lot there to unpack, and i’m cognizant of all of it because it’s only right to know the whole story.
That’s fair and honest. For me personally, I don’t really get “pride in history,” or many things people claim “pride” in or from. Like I could understand being proud of someone you know either first hand or removed- if you know them well enough to feel proud for them, like “way to go and kick that drinking habit historical figure. You showed growth!” But like- I personally can’t take pride in others accomplishments. For me the example is- your brother or partner or whoever gets a promotion on their merits.
I am proud of them, for them, with them- but I’m not proud. I didn’t raise them, even if I inspired or supported them, unless it was some exceptional effort or something beyond what would be expected of someone in that relationship- it’s like.. how is this about me?
That’s just my take, and I’m not here to begrudge others theirs, just saying that that’s how I’ve always thought of it. To me it’s a bit like nationalism. I love my country and for all my country does or has done, for what it stands for and can be, despite those parts that are less than upstanding- it is my responsibility to give back when and how I can, and something I’d do for love of my country regardless. That said, my mom plopped me out here. I could have as easily been plopped out anywhere. It was no strategy or skill on my part. Becoming American was given to me at birth, no test or trials. I didn’t even choose it. Im happy I am, but lots of Germans or Chinese or Bolivian citizens are happy too. In the end, I can take no more pride or credit than someone born wealthy, a cosmic dice role or the work of some higher power- it wasn’t of my doing.
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I am proud of them, for them, with them- but I’m not proud. I didn’t raise them, even if I inspired or supported them, unless it was some exceptional effort or something beyond what would be expected of someone in that relationship- it’s like.. how is this about me?