1. Where is the rest of your timing going if you are only working 48 hours a week and are sleeping 2 hours a day? The list doesn’t mention school or responsibilities so is that lack of sleep caused by the extra time spent on recreational activities…?
2. It’s 2023.. almost 50% of the work force is female and most are employed full time. Men average 40.5 hours worked a week and women average about four hours less a week… so that 48 hour week and 2-4 hours of sleep is… pointless to mention in discussion of gender..?
3. Of being judged by your dick size is a major problem for you, you might be showing your dick to too many people. Maybe keep your dick mostly to yourself and consider being more prudent in who you show your dick to before you show it…? You may also consider finding people less concerned with your dick size to hang out with.
4. Society can still be rigid in accepting emotional displays from males.
Even in the modern day women are often viewed as weaker or less capable And needing protection. A generally harsh and cruel system and society does at times coddle or dote on women and children in ways that it generally doesn’t do for men because men are seen as competent or capable or strong. Not all men are these things in the ways that society traditionally ascribes to men. Some men need to be coddled or aren’t capable etc. it is difficult because we tend to think in binary gender and binary gender roles but what do you do when you have someone who lacks the qualities traditionally attributed and expected of a man but isn’t a woman or doesn’t want to be identified as a woman?
This is where it could help to have a broader spectrum of gender roles. As is we have a hodge podge of descriptors and ideas such that people use and apply. In place of a better system of classification it falls on men to redifine our gender roles or to simply assert our own identity and dissociate from our gender roles to just be ourselves and not worry about if we are correctly behaving to match our genitals.
If a “man” is supposed to be capable and strong and emotionally inexpressive and such- if a “man” is judged by the size of his penis and all this… maybe you don’t want to be a man or aren’t cut out for it…? Why does so much identity- especially make identity- need to come from being a man?
I’ve never had a relationship with a woman who believed that it was her partners job to earn all her money, who didn’t speak her mind when compelled, who felt obligated to please me and be obedient. I’ve always been the cook, I’ve never had a partner act as a mother or a maid. Frankly it would freak me out to be with someone who behaved that way and no offense to more “traditionally” minded folks- but if I wanted that I could just pay an escort and get rid of them when I was tired of them or their sh*t. If we take the traditional archetype applied by society to women- that generally isn’t what I look for in partners. A “caregiver” or a “nurturer” or a “subservient.”
So there are women and men etc. out there who don’t want a traditional man. There are those who value people as they are and aren’t so concerned with genitals of others as you and those in your circle seem to be. I don’t ask or care what genitals people have when I hire them or befriend them etc. because for my line of work and my lifestyle- your genitals aren’t really very important to me and if they are I probably know what you have already. So I dunnoh man. Maybe your life would be easier if you got some more sleep and thought about peoples genitals less?
2. It’s 2023.. almost 50% of the work force is female and most are employed full time. Men average 40.5 hours worked a week and women average about four hours less a week… so that 48 hour week and 2-4 hours of sleep is… pointless to mention in discussion of gender..?
3. Of being judged by your dick size is a major problem for you, you might be showing your dick to too many people. Maybe keep your dick mostly to yourself and consider being more prudent in who you show your dick to before you show it…? You may also consider finding people less concerned with your dick size to hang out with.
4. Society can still be rigid in accepting emotional displays from males.
If a “man” is supposed to be capable and strong and emotionally inexpressive and such- if a “man” is judged by the size of his penis and all this… maybe you don’t want to be a man or aren’t cut out for it…? Why does so much identity- especially make identity- need to come from being a man?