Jenny was deeply damaged from ongoing childhood molestation as well as the entire community's obvious disinterest in intervening. If she was interested in/capable of a healthy relationship, she was pretty enough to get one.
Rose was oblivious to how her lack of focus damaged her current family until the day she died.
Nonetheless, "women" are not monolithic group any more than "men".
Avoid relationships if you like; in fact from your comment, I think some self-healing at minimum is wise before you go after one with your whole self. I definitely live in a glass house when it comes to self-review but you're at least trying to discuss your symptoms. There are worse starts.
Rose was oblivious to how her lack of focus damaged her current family until the day she died.
Nonetheless, "women" are not monolithic group any more than "men".
Avoid relationships if you like; in fact from your comment, I think some self-healing at minimum is wise before you go after one with your whole self. I definitely live in a glass house when it comes to self-review but you're at least trying to discuss your symptoms. There are worse starts.