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suckstobeyou
· 11 years ago
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"demboobs"
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seever
· 11 years ago
''suckstobeyou''
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frangel
· 9 years ago
"seever"
pinklovemoon
· 11 years ago
at first it seems romantic but i agree, suicide is a bit extreme. we live in the 21st century, star-crossed love died with romeo and juliet.
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whocares
· 11 years ago
And, after all, Romeo and Juliet had a bit more difficult circumstances than, "The couples' family did not agree with the marriage."
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guest
· 11 years ago
I think people are forgetting that china is a collectivist culture as opposed to our individualist culture, therefore what your family thinks has a very real and meaningful impact on your thoughts and behaviours. In china, people do things for the good of the group; in the West, people do things for themselves. In this example, they knew that the relationship was not acceptable to the larger group and would never be allowed, they would never be gradually accepted over time like they may have done in a western country. The family would have disowned the two had they proceeded, sometimes even murdered to save the family reputation. Seems strange to us living in the UK or america but their culture is completely different. Suicide and death is also looked at differently in China.
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whocares
· 11 years ago
Okay, I agree with the majority of this statement, but there's one thing wrong: in the west, people do not do things only for themselves. A lot of people do but not everyone, and I'm also sure that people do things only for themselves in the east as well. I mean, knowing me, I would never give up my family for some guy/girl.
guest
· 11 years ago
There are two kinds of people
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guest
· 11 years ago
maybe there was more to it. we don't know
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poopybudder
· 11 years ago
True words right there
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guest
· 11 years ago
That's like real life Romeo and Juliet shit right there
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lumphead
· 11 years ago
uh is that a dead persons hand in the picture
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guest
· 11 years ago
no it is a picture of a war rabbit in there
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selkieprincess
· 11 years ago
Their families must feel sad :(
yolo89
· 11 years ago
OH NO!
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guest
· 5 years ago
All of the people saying this is stupid are missing a crucial part of cultural education. Many cultures you are disowned and shamed if your marriage or love is not arranged or approved of. Cultural relationships alter your self-veiw and decision making. And many people living in westernized countries say this is stupid, but the only thing stupid is the harsh costoms that continue into our modern day. Suicide should never be the only out for someone, but sometimes they feel as though losing their love and culture would be worse. Things like this should never have to happen, but don't call the victims of suicide stupid because it does.