It started in 3rd grade. Instantly fell in love (don't judge me). I kept telling her every year. But every year I just got friendzoned. But that didn't stop me. In 8th grade (I'm currently in) I'm gonna ask her out soon, and yes I'm still in love with her. And what's sad is that we won't see each other in high school
I didn't realize it, you're my age, too! I am in almost the same situation, except I friendzoned someone, he asked me out, I said no. Fast forward a year, everything is fine and we're still friends, and I am now in love with him. I just can't help it:(
Guys I need your input. So I'm in 8th grade. There's this boy I like and I'm pretty sure he likes me. We talk a lot and he's called me cute a couple times. He texted me today. We texted a little bit then he said: "Fyi your one of my best friends". I don't know if I got friendzoned or the opposite.
Good idea grammarnazi. I was actually thinking that because one of my friends wants to watch World War Z with a group, so I'll invite him when/if we do.
Laceandleather and Anette123~ that guy was late today and I only see him before classes on Mondays so I'm asking him tomorrow:/ if I grow the balls to do it
I have no classes with him so there's barely any time to talk to him. I get really super nervous, and I've rejected him before so he probably has no clue!
I have no idea how to help you. I've never dated any body and am the same age as you :/ no experience in such things besides the fact that I'm going through something kind of like what you're going through.
Well it's actually not that similar to yours... Anyway long story short I developed a crush on this one guy that thought was only like one or two years older than me and I didn't exactly know it was a crush. After a while I came to the conclusion that I was in fact crushing on him but I'm not allowed to date so it really couldn't go anywhere. I figured maybe when I'm older it could work out but then a couple months later (more like 4-6 months) I put two and two together and realized that he is like 3-4 years older than me and that I'm an idiot. Anyway I realized then that it wouldn't work any time soon. I was really sad and kept getting mad at myself for letting it go on for so long even though I'm so young and stuff. It's been one or two months and I've gotten mostly over it but I still kind of have feelings for him. I really didn't WANT to get over it but my brain wouldn't listen. I think in total I may have had the crush for like a year. I'm like a reverse pedophile. -shivers-
pancakesandwaffles: Hm. Well do you know him very well? Talk to him/get to know him unless you just want to forget it.
Okay guys I have good news. So today on of my guys friends talked to the kid I like. Kinda went like this:
"Do you like Emily?"
"Why?"
"Cuz."
"Possibly."
So he probably likes me! I'm not in the friendzone!
Yes I know him pretty well. For a long time. His family is actually very close to our family and my mom likes him and says that that's the kind of boy she'd like me and my sister to hang out with but I don't think she knows how old he is. Anyway enough about me!! And YAY! That's awesome Polkadot!!!! And Chazzle feel free to to tell us about it if you want to! And yes I agree. Tell us if everything was successful!
You know polkadot he most likely wants you to ask him out. Or he is hinting and trying to ask you out. And the sad truth is that, with you saying you don't date, he could percieve that as you friendzoning him.
Also: so the guy I like and I have been flirting since the end of 7th grade. We didn't hear from each other over the summer, then we flirted way more in September and October, and I know he likes me and he knows I like him, but recently we haven't been talking, flirting, or smiling at each other as much. I know we're both pretty frustrated and I want things to go back to the way they were in October. Now what?
Hmm... Maybe you should try scheduling times to hang out. If you're allowed to date you should definitely ask him out but if not maybe try hanging out more? Idk if I'm helping. Try talking to him the next time you see him.
Just an update for you guys on here... I told the guy I really liked him and he didn't said he didn't like me anymore. This was a couple weeks ago, and so I told him we could just be friends even though it will be hard for me. Well today he said 'I can't let that happen. Will you go out with me?' My reply : 'Ohmigosh. Yes!'
You people are just fabulous. It's still. Really. Awkward. Probably because we have a lot of classes together and our lockers are near each other. And there's still like a pinch of flirtation so it's reallllly awkward. Plus I'm friends with the girl he likes now. But reading your comments really made me feel a lot better. :)
You know, she probably don't like the guy from the start and just used that as an excuse not to date him, she probably thinks that after two years the guy's feelings will change, but unfortunately, it doesn't. I understand her somehow.
OMGIOD WHY DIDNT YOU SAY YES!!!! Even if you don't know him that well or don't like him in that way it's WORTH A FRICKING SHOT IF HE WAITED TWO YEARS! I wish that person could answer me.
I totally agree with breakfast food. I mean, the guy waited 2 years! If someone did that for me I would at LEAST give him a shot! (And not the kind with a gun!)
Okay guys I have good news. So today on of my guys friends talked to the kid I like. Kinda went like this:
"Do you like Emily?"
"Why?"
"Cuz."
"Possibly."
So he probably likes me! I'm not in the friendzone!
I'm going through a thing like that as well.
Coke and ice... LETS HEAR IT
"Why did the chicken cross the road"
"Why"
"To get to the guy I like's house"
"Knock knock"
"Who's there"
"The chicken"
please slap this muthafucka