Ouch... You're right. Never happened to me, but I've seen it happen to my cousin. That or my my parents pull my ear. I'm lucky they don't do that anymore...
As a bi racial woman who's mother is black I know first hand how cousins are allowed to talk to their relatives, and I will end up balled up somewhere if I ever considered it!! It's truly a major difference between the 2!!! Also notice how the dad is next to the hospital bed like "I told yo lil ass!!" Real shit!! lmbo!!!
My mom is white. I have a half sister and brother and my mom had them when she was 19 and 22 and they used to be very disobedient and disrespectful and they used get spanked and smacked and things like that by our mom and their dad when they did something bad no matter how old they were so it's not always only black people. My mom has kind of mellowed down since she hit her thirties and hasn't spanked me or my little sister since we were really little. Of course we aren't near as bad as my older siblings were. She never really has reason to get mad at us.
Because kids can be really stubborn. And it does work. If they get popped once that doesn't mean they won't do something bad again. But there are different ways of parenting and I see nothing wrong with raising your child without doing any of this if you have a different way or if your child just doesn't need it (like I said my mom only spanked my sister and I when we were little because we learned our lessons when we were younger).
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