Mrdad01

mrdad01


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Retard units explained 7 comments
mrdad01 · 7 hours ago
Who gives a shit.
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By lunarbaboon 29 comments
mrdad01 · 2 days ago
I have it could've been great, but that bridge has burned no point in trying to get milk out of a rock. Now I'm just giving my kid the best/ safest life I can.
By lunarbaboon 29 comments
mrdad01 · 4 days ago
We weren't married although I had the funds for a wedding in a secret account, used that for the lawyer. I wrote her an eviction notice after the cops arrested her after the attack. I did actually have two minor heart attacks while we were together, from stress and hypertension caused by her.
By lunarbaboon 29 comments
mrdad01 · 5 days ago
Especially when I get to the point where the judge said 'Ms *** if you're not going to ask questions or conduct yourself in a proper manner be silent!' About ten minutes after that he gave me custody and *strongly* suggested a mental evaluation for my ex.
By lunarbaboon 29 comments
mrdad01 · 5 days ago
I'm a very happy introvert, so being alone doesn't bother me. I don't remember much of the first few months after I kicked the psycho out it was a total mess, I was running around getting a lawyer and protective orders I remember having several severe panic attacks, ending up in the hospital a couple times, eventually I started to tell myself 'it's not the knife that's dangerous it's the hands holding it' got on medication and therapy, not gonna lie though I still have major issues when *she* is around or any similarly shaped women with red hair. My ability to remember small details actually helped my custody case, between that and her going off about 'conspiracies against her' and having several witnesses to her craziness my lawyer said his presence was pointless, he actually gave me a third of his retainer fee back because he expected a battle not a circus. I still laugh when I read the transcript for the case...
By lunarbaboon 29 comments
mrdad01 · 5 days ago
I can control my triggers to the point that I will visibly shudder now, but in the months after the incident I couldn't even look at anything serrated without going into a full panic, but to an extent I can stare down the barrel of a gun and not even sweat but a knife puts me on edge. My kid is the younger one. My nightmares are real enough I often end up in a sleep paralysis state, so I work nights and sleep days to help avoid those, even went so far as to install security cameras and alarms so that I can watch for trouble and protect my family. Still I hate the fact that even after 8.5 years I'm still badly tormented by my experiences, I've actually decided that having any romantic relationships is off the table for me, I just can't bring myself to take any risks of history repeating itself.
By lunarbaboon 29 comments
mrdad01 · 5 days ago
She was ordered to pay as I was given full custody. She lost custody partly due to abusing both of her children (one is mine and one from another father) and carving me up like a Christmas turkey with a knife which is where the ptsd likes to , certain kinds of very popular knives cause me to lose my mind. Nightmares are a daily thing most of the time.
RIP (literally) 5 comments
mrdad01 · 6 days ago
At least a doctor can usually do that properly, most of the time.
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By lunarbaboon 29 comments
mrdad01 · 6 days ago
Not sure why I grind could be nightmares or ptsd related. High pain tolerance is both a curse and a gift, I shattered my ring fingertip back in February and didn't realize it until I went to an urgent care center because it was still bleeding 14 hours later.
brave people 2 comments
mrdad01 · 1 week ago
That would not be a fun blowout.
Look 6 comments
mrdad01 · 1 week ago
I hear a loud noise in the near future.
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By lunarbaboon 29 comments
mrdad01 · 1 week ago
My teeth are kind of bad anyhow due to a number of issues including grinding in my sleep and the such so I'm probably going to get artificial ones at some point. I have a very high pain tolerance so I really don't need to take any other than the odd over the counter or prescription ibuprofen. His 'mother' is likely going to jail in December as I just got a court summons about her being in contempt of support (between myself and her older son's father I'm sure she owes close to $15,000) she's in default over $6200 to my son. Frankly if she does get jailed I'd finally be able to sleep in peace, kind of hard to relax knowing the woman that abused and tried to kill you is walking the streets unsupervised, I'm just glad she can't drive (no license or car.)
By lunarbaboon 29 comments
mrdad01 · 1 week ago
I'm still hurting, and had to have two teeth surgically removed (cracked the roots and abscessed) my back is nerve damage so likely gonna be painful for awhile. Yeah I have a few choice words for his 'mother' thankfully he was an infant at the time but did find the court papers and my notebook from the time and read it without me knowing. He accepted my explanation and it doesn't bother him to not have a mother, when he has me, his grandpa and aunt, uncle.
Hell no 9 comments
mrdad01 · 1 week ago
My favorite part of the night is the tv in my bedroom randomly turning on at 1:30 am while I'm dreaming about some 8 foot tall thing in a black cloak with glowing red teeth staring down at me from beside my head.
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Choking hazard 6 comments
mrdad01 · 1 week ago
Could also just be the smell from apparently filthy clothes.
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You'll get it 3 comments
mrdad01 · 1 week ago
Half life one.
Looks like an angel 7 comments
mrdad01 · 2 weeks ago
I've seen worse face tattoos, I've personally seen a guy with a middle finger, a swastika and spider web covering his scalp (he was shaved bald) but yeah face tats is pretty much a death sentence for employment especially large or obnoxious ones.
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By lunarbaboon 29 comments
mrdad01 · 2 weeks ago
On the adoption part, maybe when things get more stable for me. Most kids have difficulty with stealth and its always funny. My kid despite being badly neglected/abused as a baby (before the psycho was removed from the picture) has grown into a very kind and emphatic young man, he absolutely hates to see anyone in pain and will do his best to help them. Prime example, I got robbed/beaten at my job a couple weeks ago and was left with a cracked upper jaw and mild back injury, when I got home from the hospital my kid met me with my favorite drink (birch beer) and a couple ice packs. He spent the rest of that evening waiting on me hand a foot.
Yeah duh 3 comments
mrdad01 · 2 weeks ago
Would probably run the city better than anyone else in that dumpster fire state.
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By lunarbaboon 29 comments
mrdad01 · 2 weeks ago
Yeah I dodged it to an extent, had a bruise on my thigh for a month. Wouldn't have mattered much anyhow since I'm not having anymore kiddos unless I adopt or find a *really* stable woman, I'm not riding the psycho train ever again lol, got way too many scars from the first one.
Now I'm curious 10 comments
mrdad01 · 2 weeks ago
Pretty sure I've seen something like that in a nightmare once. It told me to walk away slowly.
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Let's go 16 comments
mrdad01 · 2 weeks ago
In most cases... Go take a huge steaming crap and then stare at it for an hour. And yet when they can't deal with their problems themselves who do they call for help?
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Give a dog a bone 3 comments
mrdad01 · 2 weeks ago
Or lose your nose.
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By lunarbaboon 29 comments
mrdad01 · 2 weeks ago
I have taken a running headbutt to the crotch before, it was not fun.
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Fathers are awesome 6 comments
mrdad01 · 2 weeks ago
Damn straight we are! Especially the ones that pick up the slack from crap mothers.
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