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Glad I asked, that sounds lovely.

That's good to hear, now you have a crazy story to tell people about

Same here, even have eco nets for fruit and veg.

Holy shite wow, you're mum is badass but also I hope that didn't cause a lot of stress on you as a baby seeing something that graphic.

Was it just the head or did the spine come with it? Can you imagine finding that as a normal person just out for a stroll in the park

Although I'm sure you have some sort of reasoning to get to that conclusion, I feel like people who've struggled with their appearance and have worked so hard to get to a point where they feel good in themselves would be more understanding and kind. Unlike some people who may have been attractive their whole lives, these people are aware of the effort you need to point in to become a person you're happy with.

I think that's a good idea, DND needs a lot of commitment and that would provide a good opportunity to find nicer people. Hope it all goes well!

I tend to remember things like that for some reason, awhile ago you had a problem with a DND group harassing you because of your age. How's that going by the way? @lihea

Like @igot3bodyproblems said, C-section are usually done in cases of emergency when the cervix hasn't dilated enough for the baby to come out, this causes stress on the baby and the mother, in turn the baby can die. So, for the safety of both mother and baby, c-sections are performed. Sometimes they have to be done very quickly, usually when something's wrong with baby but other times the mother is given a few minutes to decide if she wants to put her baby at risk with a natural birth, or do a c-section. More often than not, the mother decides on a c-section for the safety of her child. Therefore, more staff is needed, to perform is safety rather than a natural birth where usually only 2 nurses or midwives are needed.

Same, I'm a fan of the more wild and untamed looking gardens. My Nan's is like an old english garden and you can just go exploring through fruit trees, flowers and bushes.

I'm also guessing that he didn't actually have to spend much, if he's kayaking and camping most places he would mostly be spending money on food and maybe transport from certain places that he can't kayak.

I think sometimes it's good to say what should be "common sense" out loud, cause a lot of people see workers as just that, little working machines rather than human beings with lives and feelings

I know. I am suffering but my state isn't on fire yet so we're all good for now!

It's already getting to the mid 40°C here and it's not even summer yet

You can see your doctor without your workplace knowing and go to a therapist without them knowing too, it's your right to confidentiality. I don't know your exact circumstance of course but your health is top priority, most workplaces have mental health plans.