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Cheating on restaurant 5 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
Maybe he couldn’t pay either and had to wash dishes too.
I dont want to trigger anything through this. Just wanted to feel at ease with myself. 28 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
I did some cutting as a teen. I never really thought about why, but in retrospect, I think it was sort of like a pressure release. Physical pain to drown the mental pain. Later in life, I settled for piercing, cutting hair, and running.
Running really helped a lot. I would run until I was totally depleted, then turn around and run home.
Sometimes I still need a good piercing though. It’s the same thing, but a little more acceptable.
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Running really helped a lot. I would run until I was totally depleted, then turn around and run home.
Sometimes I still need a good piercing though. It’s the same thing, but a little more acceptable.
I dont want to trigger anything through this. Just wanted to feel at ease with myself. 28 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
I for sure have a little of the picking. It’s compulsive. If there’s something on my skin, scab, ingrown hair, regular hair that I can get ahold of, anything, I pick at it. Don’t even realize. God forbid I have a pimple. I can’t let it alone.
Inspirational 7 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
Yes. This is surprisingly uplifting. I shall prepare for this impending murder.
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At least its an LG 2 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
Yep. I’ve never had sex without at least one barrier with at least 97% effectiveness. And yet I have a surprise kid.
I don’t know about a mistake, but I can confirm surprise is a real thing.
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I don’t know about a mistake, but I can confirm surprise is a real thing.
Is this normal? 19 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
Right. In that case, I can’t argue. :)
But when the welfare is for people with money we call it subsidies; welfare has such a stigma. ;)
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Edited 4 years ago
But when the welfare is for people with money we call it subsidies; welfare has such a stigma. ;)
Why don't you date a real woman like me? 7 comments
She’s overrated 7 comments
Is this normal? 19 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
You got it backwards. It’s a subsidy for the restaurant owner. The diner is conscripted into paying the wait staff so the owner doesn’t have to. The wait staff is working for for the money, therefore it is not welfare, it’s pay for service rendered.
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Is this normal? 19 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
Yeah. Restaurants rarely make up the difference. In the US, your server is most likely not being paid by the house (the $2.15 covers taxes and little more). So, (in the US) if you choose not to tip, you are suggesting the server doesn’t deserve to be paid for the time and energy they spent serving you. It’s a shitty system, but it is the dominant system. There are some restaurants that charge higher prices and pay the servers a regular wage. Those restaurants generally ask you not to tip or collect additional tips to be divided amongst staff.
Bottom line, in the US, if you’d don’t leave a tip, you’re telling someone they don’t deserve to be paid. I’ve had some pretty bad service, but never any so bad that I thought someone didn’t deserve to get something for their time.
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Bottom line, in the US, if you’d don’t leave a tip, you’re telling someone they don’t deserve to be paid. I’ve had some pretty bad service, but never any so bad that I thought someone didn’t deserve to get something for their time.
Taped to a 14000 liter tank of liquid sodium 3 comments
Sad truth but ok 8 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
Science isn’t a religion. It doesn’t matter if you believe in it or not —its observable, repeatable phenomena. It’s not belief; it’s reality.
Vaccines are not all given in the first year. They are given over the course of 14 years.
Vaccines are not all given in the first year. They are given over the course of 14 years.
I cut and dyed my own hair, found a toning shampoo and am quite happy despite skin issues! 38 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
Yessss. I have 14 piercings, all hidden or on my ears. I work in a corporate world, so must not have facial piercings :(
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Sad truth but ok 8 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
Are you suggesting that people without a history of immune compromise avoid vaccination?
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Comfort pet 9 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
I had a dog that was terrifyingly brilliant. “They” always say that dogs don’t understand mirrors. And I’ve certainly met my share of dogs that very much don’t. But Maggie did. And not just in the hey-that’s-my-reflection sort of way.
I have a long wardrobe mirror and she was laying in front of it. We made eye contact in the mirror. Thinking I was going to trick her, I gestured like I was stalking her. I was going to grab her, and I expected her to rush toward the mirror as I did, but instead she flipped and crashed right into me. And I was so surprised because she knew right where I was and was watching it in the mirror.
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I have a long wardrobe mirror and she was laying in front of it. We made eye contact in the mirror. Thinking I was going to trick her, I gestured like I was stalking her. I was going to grab her, and I expected her to rush toward the mirror as I did, but instead she flipped and crashed right into me. And I was so surprised because she knew right where I was and was watching it in the mirror.
Everything made of plastic can be done with this wonderful plant! Let's save the 8 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
I can’t find any information about the temperature tolerance of hemp plastic. That may be the real deciding factor. It sounds like maybe it’s comparable to ABS (what legos are made of), but ABS has a fairly low temperature range.
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Endless possibilities 5 comments
Try something new this holiday season! 8 comments
Try something new this holiday season! 8 comments
And she have 2 baby daddy 5 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
You know what. It sucks that hard working middle class couples have budget to be able to afford to have a baby. It sucks that they have to pay so much for the medical expenses, especially when they see that there are lower class people who they like to think of as beneath them that get the childbirth paid for.
It sucks, but that woman who works just as many hours as you for absolute shit pay deserves healthcare as much as any one else with the resources to acquire it.
SHE IS NOT THE ENEMY. Try being upset that the corporation that is profiting millions/billions on the low wage labor without access to benefits, while avoiding the taxes that pay benefits for the people the make their profits from.
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It sucks, but that woman who works just as many hours as you for absolute shit pay deserves healthcare as much as any one else with the resources to acquire it.
SHE IS NOT THE ENEMY. Try being upset that the corporation that is profiting millions/billions on the low wage labor without access to benefits, while avoiding the taxes that pay benefits for the people the make their profits from.
It's the truth 62 comments
roanoke
· 4 years ago
But it’s not arrogant to support an idea with research and data (I’m sorry sir that you don’t know what you’re talking about). And it’s not aggressive to ask the VP (who’s in the meeting) about the specs of the project he’s asking you to work on. It’s not stubborn to want to be treated with the same respect that male coworkers are (same pay, not being told to dress more feminine, the ability to speak up in meetings). And when you tell me that I’m too aggressive at trying to get the data I need to do the job you’ve assigned me, then reprimand me for not doing it on time, because I couldn’t get the data (but there’s a clear history that I made the request well in advance) who’s being insufferable?
I’m sorry but the joke wasn’t funny. It’s actually kinda shitty.
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I’m sorry but the joke wasn’t funny. It’s actually kinda shitty.