saltlakesnark

saltlakesnark


i drink an embarrassingly large amount of diet coke and i'm often a complete idiot. Please keep that in mind if i put my foot in my mouth.

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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
Considering I pay my child's bills, as do every parent with a disabled child, your point is invalid. Would you advocate the death of the homeless, veterans who are handicapped and can't work, or foster children? Your logic is heartless. How a person treats those meeker and more vulnerable then them says more about that person then any words can. The fact that you choose to post as a guest shows that you don't want your opinion associated with you. Maybe change it instead of hide in anonymity.
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Apparently this opinion makes me some kind of monster 119 comments
saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
To the first guest: Everyone is entitled to their opinion. And while i obviously don't agree, i would like you to consider why you feel that way. Is there something inherently wrong with those that are different then you? Are people only valuable if they are the same as you? Why in a society that is trying to celebrate and value people who are different, (sex, race, religion, nationality, political views, LGBT, etc) why would you want to with hold that from people who are meeker than you. If our society is to move to one of acceptance, peace, and inclusion, no one should be left out. Those with disabilities deserve inclusion and respect just as much as anyone else.
Only someone who has never met or spoken with someone with Down syndrome could ever have your opinion. Your ideas come from ignorance, and i suggest you educate yourself by seeking a better understanding of those that are different.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
to the guest: i absolutely agree that parents do have to agree to raising a disabled child. And because i understand the differences and hardships with a disabled child, i am pro-choice, even though it isn't an option i would ever choose. Yes, 20 years ago, a much larger majority of those born disabled or with severe medical conditions would have died at birth. But that's what makes modern medicine so wonderful. Were able to not just preserve life, but improve the quality of life for all. And through research and therapy, we as a society understand disabilities and complicated medical diagnosis better.
I understand the idea of accepting the responsibilities of a disabled child. and of not. My now ex-husband could not deal with having a disabled child and chose to not be a father or husband. I get it. But people, just because they are not "perfect" do not deserve to be discarded. And hopefully our society can get to a place where we can see value in the different, the imperfect
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
I hope you never have to counsel someone struggling with depression and suicide.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
Then why act as though I am uneducated? And if this IS something you're religious education was afforded, but mine not, can you please tell me where to "educate" myself, rather then being dismissive.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
And yes, he did have his flaws, both personal and as a leader. No person is perfect.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
I have actually taken many classes on him. His life, before and after he founded the LDS church. I've also read many books. It is a subject i am well versed in. Which is why i know it to be erroneous. When i wanted to learn about Judaism, i went to a Jew. When i wanted to learn about Muslims and the Koran, i went to a Muslim. If you want to know more or have questions about Mormons and the LDS church, i would hope you would go to a Mormon, and not just someone who claims to know about them.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
I want to thank the guest who wrote this post. While i don't agree, i want to assure anyone who does feel this way, that you are in no way a monster. The desire to end suffering makes you compassionate, not heartless. But i do want to assure you that most people do not "suffer" with their disabilities, handicaps, diagnosis, or shortcomings. It may not be a life one is envious of, they have fewer choices in life. They have a lot less control and often must be reliant upon others the entire time they are alive. It is a different life. Not less of a life. Just different. Part of who my daughter is, is her diagnosis (Down syndrome). But i don't want her to be "normal". I love who she is, and she has value beyond what she isn't.
Specifically of fatal, and painful childhood diseases, like Tay-sachs, i feel like the only people qualified to decide between continuing in pain, or ending the pain, are the parents of the child. Only they truly understand the situation.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
He actually didn't. In fact, this is the first i've ever heard someone say he did. But people also think we have horns and every guy has 5 wives. It's always interesting to read what people think.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
If they suffer in society, that is because society needs to learn love and acceptance of those that are different. The problem is not in the shoulders of the disadvantaged.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
It is, whether people realize it or not.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
Thank you! I loved reading your words! I think this may be an issue only truly understood by those who experience life alongside those who are different.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
As someone who has a child who would have died at birth without medical intervention, I don't think you understand how hurtful your words are. The post is at least from an idea of limiting suffering. Your "natural selection" is actually more along the line of eugenics. Should we rid the worth of vaccines? Emergency medicine? Life saving cancer treatments? These are all things that save lives that "natural selection" would have taken out 100 years ago.
Life has value beyond perfection and your definition of expected potential.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
My daughter was born with Down syndrome and a severe heart defect. She was 5 weeks early and her lungs couldn't function on their own. We spent almost 3 months with ER I the hospital before we were able to take her home. We met many other families and heard their stories. A few knew they were never going to be able to take their babies home. But those children were loved and cherished while alive. And they gave so much to those who loved them.
A life that is different, that doesn't contain the same potential as all of us, is still a life worth living. Our lives have more worth then just who we are. There is worth in those who we love, who love us, and the impact we have on those around us thru out our whole lives. No matter how short that life may be.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
I understand the idea behind this post. But I do disagree. Just because a life is short and painful doesn't mean it doesn't contain happiness and isn't meaningful. Your trying to simplify a humans existence into how you define a life worth living. Just because a life has limited potential, limited movement, harder choices or is short, doesn't make it not worth living. I have a friend who's daughter suffered a brain bleed at birth, then again at 6 months. She is now 16 and has severe cerebral palsy and is very much filled with pain. But she is more then her diagnosis. More then her pain. She is a person with ideas and interests and emotions. And her life is happy because she is happy and her family and friends love her.
Those that are born with birth defects or genetic conditions still have value beyond their diagnosis. They are still people. They still deserve to experience the good in life, even if it means pain or a very short life span.
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
While Mormons are supposed to refrain from crude phrases and swear words, we still do totally swear. There's even a past apostle the was known to swear often, even when talking at huge church functions.
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when my mom picks out clothes for me 14 comments
saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
When I worked at a cupcake bakery, we once had a little boy come in with his dad. The kid was in full in Spider-Man costume. And he never broke character. When they left, the dad said "come on Spider-Man" and the kid locked eyes with me and walked out keeping eye contact.
I'm all about kids choosing their own clothes, no matter how weird they look. (Within reason. A swimming suit to school doesn't really work.)
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saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
I wanna know what got left off.
Oh I'm going to crush you 6 comments
saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
my 2 year old does this. aggressive affection?
Self-Racism at it's best 2 comments
saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
This is pretty funny.
I do think the American school system is screwing over students for life by not teaching history as it happened and instead presenting the USA as "amazing people who did amazing things." It ends up being more of a lesson in propaganda then an accurate portrayal of our country's history. We have had some super bigoted and heartless people in power who have made terrible decisions that hurt our nations people, or even destroyed other countries/peoples. Teaching only one side of these people in history, leaving out the how our actions as a country adversely affected others, and teaching children/teenagers that America is amazing and great and perfect/better then others is not only inaccurate, Its wrong.
Yes, there are some people who did amazing things in our history. But learning that America and it's leaders have made mistakes doesn't diminish us now. Students need to learn the bad to appreciate the good.
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Looking like this 2 comments
saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
Like me, you must suffer from "bitch face".
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This kid is going places, not college, but places 5 comments
saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
Kids are idiots. Adorable, manipulative idiots.
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Please Read! Could save lives! 50 comments
saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
I completely agree. lists like this focus on the wrong end of the problem. Lists like this try to teach you to just be smarter then the next person so they're the victim instead of you. Yes, it's good to be aware of your surroundings and not trust those you don't know. But most people are raped by those they know. Our society should be teaching people not to rape, instead of putting the focus and prevention on the shoulders of the victims and potential victims.
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It goes both ways 70 comments
saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
Awwww, thank you!
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how i chase after a guy 11 comments
saltlakesnark · 10 years ago
This is me, but with cats.
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