I think it's important to understand that "mental disorder" is a man-made label, and only exists because we decided it would be easier for us if it did. Some psychologists don't even agree that there is such thing. But if there is, the only reason homosexuality isn't officially considered one is because it's not "politically correct."

By 6 of 7 most kids will have figured it out. I think it's age 3 or 4 that cognitive development surpasses this. Something like that.

How are you getting thumbed up for being a jerk, Joseph? There must be a secret...

It's South Africa's fault. I'm American but I loved in SA for the better part of the last several years.
Plus it was a British friend that I was with, so... that too.

But assumptions that were totally valid within the experience of those individuals. People who believe in God today often do it the same way, and it's no less valid. Obviously this example is an exaggeration, but it is a process that we all do. Even hard scientists.

No kidding. Generations ahead of their time.

Except that virginity and cereal choice are on opposite ends of the spectrum in terms of significance

I agree. Smart people sometimes totally miss the point. It's kinda disappointing.

How about just the ones that are missing the point.?