Don't threaten me with a good time

Me?
Or just any cake?

Well said sir/madam

We have a powerlifter in our midst

...all walk into a bar
The bartender says "What is this, a joke?"

Changing someone's personality is almost impossible
A snide t-shirt is hardly likely to do it
One of the few people who knew how to do it was Carl Rogers
Look up his stuff if you're interested

She's going to a party my man

In fact, according to the Oxford dictionary, violence has to involve physical force
Thus (if we go by that definition) @guest_ is factually incorrect to say that disrespect is violence

I think you need to be extremely careful saying that disrespect is a form of violence because that can legitimise the use of actual violence in response

Disrespect is a form of violence?
It's certainly not physical violence, which is what I assume most people mean when they use the term violence?

If that's an example of "owning" someone, then surely the person that makes the biggest threats is the best at owning someone?