"My statement is not a generalisation because of my confirmation bias." Fucking lol.

That defense works for civilians who aren't trained to handle situations like that, cops should be trained to a) de-escalate, b) disarm a subject without just straight up murdering them. Granted, your fight or flight instinct kicks in and you do anything to survive, that can happen to all humans including cops. But maybe we should examine why it happens so often and so disproportionately in the US and specifically towards minorities in the US, compared to for example European countries?

Storytime, me and a friend of mine once went to a café to study for an exam. It was just the two of us as nobody in our group of friends had this particular subject we were studying for. The waitress/cashier (?) assumed we were on a date and gave the bill to him. I didn't want to demean him by saying "nooooo we're just friends" so I just shrugged it off, but I paid when we met to study the next time, as it was the only obvious course of action to me. Besides, I hate owing money to people, just a personal quirk I guess. And he wasn't a dick about it and didn't assume I was trying to mooch off of him, just that the waitress had misread the situation. That's usually how relationships work for most people, not in some twisted transactional way. (2/2)

No, most "feeeemales" (I hate when people use that word to refer to people. Makes them sound like a bitter incel...) don't assume that. It was a thing maybe 20 years ago, nowadays most women and girls assume each person will pay for themselves. Go out and meet some people instead of reading MGTOW forums full of generalizations and lies about women, will ya?
Also, if you're only paying for someone's food in order to fuck them later, then you might as well just buy a prostitute. In my group of friends we treat each other to a meal or coffee all the time. We do it because we're friends, not as some kind of transaction.
And I won't even get into that "weak" vs "dominant" thing. I'll only say that a man who gets upset and petty over not getting what he wants is in my eyes "weaker" than a guy who treats his friends well. A sniveling cockroach of a human who only does good things for people because it'll bring him some benefits as well, same as the golddigger who expects men to pay. (1/2)

Idk who down voted you, that's a superbly (is that even a word?) insightful comment.

"brotato chip" is probably the cutest thing I've ever been called hahaha

Lol thank you guys <3

Good on you, he deserved the punch and probably more. I forget I already told a story because I don't expect people to care enough about what I have to say to remember it. Yeah I'm that person in the group who always gets talked over lol.

Lol, good one.

'Twas a joke referencing the show Two and a Half Men. But you're right.

Nah, that's a strawman, actual feminists care about men's issues and want men to get better mental healthcare.

It's Utah, it's possible he's a Mormon and taught to always be outwardly nice.

His mom probably lol

Thanks haha
I wrote it when I was still half asleep, apparently that's when I get the best ideas