Just gonna drop the truth here 22 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
I guess flinching when you see a punch coming your way is more analogous, then? Just because you flinched, that doesn't mean you wanted to be punched, right?
And semantics aside, I'll be sure to keep my eye on anyone who tries to seriously, unironically make the case that someone "enjoyed" an assault because their body "prepared" for it.
And again, arousal can be preparation but it can also be a reaction to something that's already happening. Or it can be entirely random. I mean, aren't inappropriately timed boners a crucial part of the male teenage experience?
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And semantics aside, I'll be sure to keep my eye on anyone who tries to seriously, unironically make the case that someone "enjoyed" an assault because their body "prepared" for it.
And again, arousal can be preparation but it can also be a reaction to something that's already happening. Or it can be entirely random. I mean, aren't inappropriately timed boners a crucial part of the male teenage experience?
Just gonna drop the truth here 22 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
Weeell I don't know if the analogy is *that* incorrect. Arousal can happen when you look at someone you find attractive but also just as a reaction to physical stimulation. And the latter might be your body preparing "out of necessity" – especially for those of us who have a vagina, the body knows that it'd hurt like hell otherwise so it prepares, whether the encounter is consensual or not – rather than out of genuine arousal. I suppose the mechanics might be a bit different for you gents, but the principle remains. Especially when we take into account that the overwhelming majority of SA happens between people who know each other and there's usually a lot of coercion, manipulation, gaslighting and power dynamics involved.
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This’ll be interesting 20 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
Once upon a time there was an iguana who was unfortunately thrown by a footfag to become an actor. Only zoom could reverse it, but fortunately for our hero, they found their chance when an egg accidentally deleted. Though the egg was reluctant, eventually the hero convinced them to give them zoom. The moment it happened, the actor was reversed and our hero once more became an iguana.
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Zoom sounds like some kind of drug, not gonna lie. In fact the whole story sounds like it was written by someone on copious amounts of drugs, lol.
Oh btw if you're into this whole mad libs things and have an Android phone, Google assistant has this thing where you can play mad libs with it. I guess most people already know this, but in case you don't, it's a funny thing to play when you're alone and bored.
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Zoom sounds like some kind of drug, not gonna lie. In fact the whole story sounds like it was written by someone on copious amounts of drugs, lol.
Oh btw if you're into this whole mad libs things and have an Android phone, Google assistant has this thing where you can play mad libs with it. I guess most people already know this, but in case you don't, it's a funny thing to play when you're alone and bored.
Wait, women can be aggressive too? 4 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
Just curious as I'm not a history nerd, how many of them actually declared wars and how many only continued them from their predecessor? Because those two are arguably two quite different things.
That said, in principle I do agree with the point of the post, women aren't always inherently peaceful and men aren't inherently warmongers. I'm just asking out of curiosity.
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That said, in principle I do agree with the point of the post, women aren't always inherently peaceful and men aren't inherently warmongers. I'm just asking out of curiosity.
Just gonna drop the truth here 22 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
A lot of SA survivors actually have trauma because of this, they think that because their body responded the way it just naturally does to external stimuli (ie. boner or wetness), it means it was somehow their fault because the perpetrator thought they were enjoying it. So yeah, boner is not consent. Consent is consent. Ideally informed and enthusiastic consent.
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*Gets fancy with the spices* 7 comments
Donkeys with Lambs in their pockets 2 comments
Men invented wrestling to normalise hugs 6 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
Ahahahaha the title though. Was about to make a jiujitsu joke when I realized the title has done that already.
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You can’t reason with this people 6 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
I suppose, but how does one debunk anything then, when dealing with a person who doesn't believe in facts?
Guys, I think I just solved racism 3 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
HOMO sapiens? But what about us Hetero sapiens? Are you trying to exclude us? Is this the gay agenda SJW orwellian future the feminists want?
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Those ***s lied to me. 5 comments
Got into sewing/upcycling recently, just sharing some stuff I made (~‾3‾)~ 6 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
Only in Czechia right now, but I'm considering getting an Etsy account on top of that, if they take off
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Got into sewing/upcycling recently, just sharing some stuff I made (~‾3‾)~ 6 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
Ahahah that one was actually the first to go when I gave it to this alternative/punk second hand shop that I cooperate with. Good to know what's popular and what isn't. I personally expected the white one to be more popular because of Wednesday Addams, but turns out not really lol. Yay market research?
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f*ck rich people 16 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
By they worked so hard for it!! By scamming people... and underpaying workers... and exploiting every loophole imaginable and then some to avoid paying their fair share of taxes... But we gotta let them keep their stolen wealth, otherwise we're the thieves!
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No oven necessary 1 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
Lol still probably better than the banana peel "vegan pulled pork" abomination
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The sculpture and the sculptor 5 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
You could blur out the text and still be able to somewhat accurately guess what the contents of the tweets are, based on the usernames and profile pics of these dudes alone ahahaha.
"Rational Male" my ass cheeks lmao.
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"Rational Male" my ass cheeks lmao.
At least the Soviets and Maoists treated LGBT well... 4 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
Dang it's been a while since I last saw a whoosh that big.
(Referring to the original comment, not the reply by ichor)
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Ill go first, grab my head 73 comments
ewqua
· 2 years ago
Grab my stuff and then I can deal with it I guess.
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Uh, is that just me or does that line sound like something said by a hitman or a gangster? Like, you grab my stuff and I'll go yeet that body into a river or something.
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Uh, is that just me or does that line sound like something said by a hitman or a gangster? Like, you grab my stuff and I'll go yeet that body into a river or something.
But honestly it was in a weird way refreshing to have a normal scary nightmare. Normally my nightmares are about being late to work or failing an exam lol.