One day this woman asked me "how are you really doing?" And that was the most beautiful question I was ever given, to feel that someone reallt cares means ALOT.
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I guess you guys will all hate me but I don't really care how they're actually doing sometimes I just use it to start conversation. Anyways, why would I actually care unless I would like to ruin the rest of my day?
I've had anxiety since I was a teenager. But it's the kind that attacks you get out of nowhere, I can be alone or in public, but I'm still very outgoing and I'm a server at a restaurant. So everytime I get a panic attack, which is prob 6 or 7 times a day, I've learned to use that fear of people and turn it into excitement. If your just up front about things and learn to embrace them it makes life alot easier
Even if they're just making a conversation who cares?At least they're talking to you..also you're the one answering "I'm good." even if it's a lie.If you want someone to actually care and discuss you need to start caring as well.
I agree, mine is from dealing with a birth defect so I basically had two choices, be socially crippled, or not let it get to me on a mental level. The physical part is the hardest, excessive sweating and what not
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