When is this gonna happen to me?

well, its not that she is purposely trying but since that's all she really concentrates on (e.g. having her post baby body pics photoshopped) it sets that example. does that make sense?

Yeah I get what your saying, I would probably do the same though if I knew that everybody in the world was going to see and judge them

i mean she just could have not done the bikini photo shoot if she she felt the need for the pics to be re-touched. that's why I would never want to be famous in any way. I have well balanced sefl-esteem. I don't let other people's opinions get to me (except maybe my husband but he doesn't do that to me). However, I don't want my bad hair days, cellulite, or acne be a part of any one's status update. lol...its quite alright, they can keep the fame.