Okay seriously where are the guys like you? I honestly feel like most men/boys just want a fling or something "fun". But then again you're all probably inside on the internet. As are most nice girls. Once your out of school, it's pretty hard to find a decent person to date, long term at least.
To be honest I'm never intorduced. I've grown up in a religious society with schools that are only for boys.and because I have moved I never had the opportunity to meet a girl. So I legit don't know a single girl my age.
9
·
Edited 11 years ago
deleted
· 11 years ago
Yea I understand and that must be tough. I'm not going to lie to you, it's hard, out in the real world, to find a decent person to date. If you get lucky, you'll meet a nice girl the first time, if not get ready for some heart brakes and pain. As a girl in my 20s, I've had my fair share of heart brakes but there were some good times too. All I can say is don't give up, the road may be bumpy, but it will all be worth it when you find "the one". Just think of the heart brakes as a learning experience and what not to do/ look for. Just keep your head up and don't listen to your friends.
Oh. My. God. Your spelling BREAKS my heart. On a different note, I think it is unhealthy for people to believe in "the one". This concept is relatively modern (think disney films). In the past, people entering relationships expected there to be some really tough times in the relationship and they worked through them. They knew there is no such thing as a perfect relationship and happily ever after. However nowadays, if something goes wrong, couples (especially girls) rationalise it as meaning that they are not meant to be and so they break up in order to continue their search for the mysterious "one". The way I look at things, there are thousands of girls in the world that I could live the rest of my life with, but whichever one I end up with I expect to work hard to make it work.
My current GF is Mormon, so any questions about the future of our relationship revolve around me eventually getting her into the Celestial Kingdom and being with her forever (in the literal sense). We've had many a talk about the meaning of the LDS church and how I don't find it appealing, but I can understand how others might. Religion, especially if you're born into one, is a very hard to break out of, if you want to do that. My suggestion if you want to stay within a Christian (or whichever religion you happen to be) subset: go to a church gathering and mingle. If you're young, there should be plenty of eligible ladies around. If you want something more secular, then take a theater class or something, a place where like minded people get together.
Omg, so after countless times of being fucked over by the stupid hockey boys of my school, and all the other jerks finally I met this guy. He was a friend of mine, we were never really close but anyways on a school trip to europe we ended up getting closer and he's literally perfect!! Anyways I just want to say I've finally met a guy like this and it's the best thing ever, so girls take a step back and look a little bit closer, the perfect guy may be right under your nose. Or in the friendzone, but seriously these guys are so few you need to give them a chance!!!
erm... i'm thy type of girl who gets to guys. i'm not really un-approachable, so... anybody can come say hi to me but i refuse to belive in existance of a nice, smart guy who'd be crazy enough to like me back because that's just bound to be disappointments all the way and i don't have the strength to cope with that.
Comments