this was nice of you, thank you. :)
now, if i may defend they way my point was projected in... This whole thing is a very emotional matter and as it happens i've had too much personal experience concerning this (as i've stated in my first comment already) so how about we pretend people have feelings and people express feelings and they might or might not be expressing too much feelings but there's still no reason to say those people are spastic and beyond help? :)
thank you for your kindness. i'm glad you can understand that i'm not some crazy wench who forgot to take her meds in the morning. :)
you're quite right except it wasn't exactly a break-up but possibly it was worse...
as for the negative response, well, i don't mind people disagreeig with me but i do get slightly upset when i'm being called spastic or whatever because that makes my opinions look quite irrelevant... similarly to saying ' ah, she's on her period' or 'it's the hormones'.
the attitude and/or circumstances shoulnd't really outweigh the point, i believe.
i know and you're right but it's kinda hard to swallow all the anger/other feelings down when talking about a touchy matter like this. i'd suggest people try taking such feeling-packed things slightly lighter. you know, if i have to consider how others might react to my words maybe it should go both ways and the audience should take into account that teh discussed matter is delicate and thus people might get overly emotional about it. :)
as for what happened... i met someone who had about the same about of bad experiences with people as i do. the whole thing was draggy, it hurt most of the time, nothing really happened and now we ended up 'kinda-friends' who can't even look each other in the eye. it doesn't matter though, shit happens. a lot. mostly to me. but hey, it could be worse.
you know, it has been a real pleasure talking to you... just though i should let you know. :3
no, we're not going anywhere, really. i'd just like you to please get over the fact that yes, i went overly emotional, no it's not weird, yes, humans do have emotions.
now i'm so done with you, i can't even. have a nice day, bye. and take it easy with that sarcasm, you're not careful, you'll poison yourself.
Hey, I didn't start anything up, again or earlier. In fact, just above, I tried to calmly warn everyone of incoming spaz.
Something tells me if linds was a dude, and not some chick who hasn't learned how to handle her PeriodSubstance yet, you wouldn't be quite so forgiving.
That IS what I was trying to do. If someone is easily riled up, you can hardly blame lil 'ol me over it. 0:D
As for most arguments being with chicks, you have to remember, most of FS is chicks. You must take the ratio into account.
oh guys, fighting over me and my ''spazzing'' out. my heart is melting, particularly for lil ol' you, mgoveia. you carry on like that, i'll be taking you out on a date ;)
as for you, zmatrixng.... i'm sending a package of hugs and good karma your way because you've been nice to me and you're still trying to calm things down when evidently this is kind of a lost cause here
this is cruel and stupid. people change. YOU change. everybody changes. people you love change. if they don't become fucking serial killers or child rapists you have no right to go full asshole on them. simply tell them they've changed and that might not be bad for them but you just don't feel the same about them anymore. saying to someone they've killed the person they used to be, "the person you loved" is fucking evil.
okay, i might gotten a bit too upset over this...it's my scarred past speaking. doesn't mean my point is any less valid, tho.
oh yeah and those who only noticed the nipples and pointed them out? you've prooved the whole wide internet that you have functional eyes. congratulations, really.
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Well then. That was rude. He didn't go full asshole. What's the point of staying in a relationship with someone if you don't like their character anymore? I understand that people change, but feelings towards people change as well.
After you fall in love with someone... and they grow and change as they age and they are no longer compatible with who you have become as you have grown...
You don't love each other anymore, you are clinging to the past and who you used to be.
Life isn't always blue skies and happily ever after. Life fucking sucks sometimes and will kick you repeately when you are down.
We all change. When you think about it, we're all different people all through our lives, and that's okay, that's good, you gotta keep moving, so long as you remember all people that you used to be.
please tell me in which way is leaving people kneeling in tears NOT being an asshole.
should they be punished for changing, which is, accoring to all of us, a normal proces?
also, how is saying someone has killed their past self (who was so much nicer and more lovable), how is in fact that NOT being mean? telling someone they've changed for the worse so much, you can't love them anymore? that's NICE and not hurtful at all? Really?!
now, if i may defend they way my point was projected in... This whole thing is a very emotional matter and as it happens i've had too much personal experience concerning this (as i've stated in my first comment already) so how about we pretend people have feelings and people express feelings and they might or might not be expressing too much feelings but there's still no reason to say those people are spastic and beyond help? :)
you're quite right except it wasn't exactly a break-up but possibly it was worse...
as for the negative response, well, i don't mind people disagreeig with me but i do get slightly upset when i'm being called spastic or whatever because that makes my opinions look quite irrelevant... similarly to saying ' ah, she's on her period' or 'it's the hormones'.
the attitude and/or circumstances shoulnd't really outweigh the point, i believe.
as for what happened... i met someone who had about the same about of bad experiences with people as i do. the whole thing was draggy, it hurt most of the time, nothing really happened and now we ended up 'kinda-friends' who can't even look each other in the eye. it doesn't matter though, shit happens. a lot. mostly to me. but hey, it could be worse.
you know, it has been a real pleasure talking to you... just though i should let you know. :3
now i'm so done with you, i can't even. have a nice day, bye. and take it easy with that sarcasm, you're not careful, you'll poison yourself.
Something tells me if linds was a dude, and not some chick who hasn't learned how to handle her PeriodSubstance yet, you wouldn't be quite so forgiving.
As for most arguments being with chicks, you have to remember, most of FS is chicks. You must take the ratio into account.
as for you, zmatrixng.... i'm sending a package of hugs and good karma your way because you've been nice to me and you're still trying to calm things down when evidently this is kind of a lost cause here
Sadly, I'm already spoken for. :(
okay, i might gotten a bit too upset over this...it's my scarred past speaking. doesn't mean my point is any less valid, tho.
oh yeah and those who only noticed the nipples and pointed them out? you've prooved the whole wide internet that you have functional eyes. congratulations, really.
You don't love each other anymore, you are clinging to the past and who you used to be.
Life isn't always blue skies and happily ever after. Life fucking sucks sometimes and will kick you repeately when you are down.
should they be punished for changing, which is, accoring to all of us, a normal proces?
also, how is saying someone has killed their past self (who was so much nicer and more lovable), how is in fact that NOT being mean? telling someone they've changed for the worse so much, you can't love them anymore? that's NICE and not hurtful at all? Really?!